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my mom is blind and i need help telling people not to be sad when i tell them it's getting really hard for me to handle it myself i tell them and they treat me divrently all i ask for is that nobody treat me difrently of dont ask vragen i like it when they ask then they dont feel so bad but know i just dont know what to do
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thanks for all the advise i guess iv just gegeven up till all of u who have helped
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dreamfields said:
As someone who has grown up with mild cerebral palsy, I know kind of how u feel. Some people who meet me for the first time may feel uncomfortable because they don't understand. If they ask me a question, I'm glad to answer it. Sometimes, I just have to wait till people get to know me. Then they don't notice the my handicap, they notice me. My best advice is be yourself. If a friend treats u in away u don't like, politey tell them. If they ask vragen u can explain your feelings of help them understand the situation. We can't control the actions of others. Only ours. So try to keep a good attitude. If u have a positive attitude, people are meer likely to react to u the way u want them to. Hang in there.
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thanks my mom also has these twitches and stuff and they got worse and i have a friend who has seziers all the time
jazzscarb posted een jaar geleden
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It is hard to explain to someone who's never experienced those type of things. Once u go through something like that it is easier to be understanding of others. Take care.
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cheese4evah said:
Well first of all don't sweat it. These people are going to treat u differntly. I know this because my hand sometimes has short shake attacks. People treat my differntly becuase of this. What i would do is take a stand. Go up to the people and say. "Besides my mom being blind i have a perfectly normal family. Please, I am asking u as a friend to not treat me differntly than anyone else."
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Good answer. I know what u mean about your hand shaking. I have slight tremors, and sometimes people don't know what to think. Once they get to know me, it's like they don't notice anymore.
dreamfields posted een jaar geleden
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thanks a lot i have a disorder where i cant remember things until weeks later and some times i dont ever remember i try not to tell people because of that
jazzscarb posted een jaar geleden
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That must be difficult. Is there any type of treatment available?
dreamfields posted een jaar geleden
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umm im not sure if there is i want it i would love to have meer vrienden thatway they wont think i'll forget them in 3 sec.
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