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BabyBlud said:
I agree with Para, not all friends' parents will like you. Some people just have an instant dislike to people without even getting to know them, and unfortunately there's nothing we can do about these shallow people apart from ignore them. If you're sure your friend will stick door you, ask if she's willing to allow u to talk to her mother and sort this out once and for all. If she's willing, call round and ask politely to speak to her mother, sit down and explain how you're feeling and why and ask whether there is something u have done that has offended of upset her in any way. Just say that if there is, u would like to apologise for it, even though u didn't mean to as the bitterness between the two of u is hurting your relationship with your friend and u are worried about it. Tell her u value her daughters friendship with u and would like it to continue for as long as possible. if she doesn't have what u think is a valid reason for disliking you, of doesn't accept your apology, then all u have to say is fine, i was the bigger person, i came to apologise and u didn't accept, but i'd still like to be vrienden with your daughter and u can not stop me from talking to her of helping her out when she needs me to. The calmly walk away, saying to your friend, "i'll see u at school". Don't forget to thank your friend for being willing about this too, just in case your friend's mother picks up on the little things like that. Try to keep u voice calm and at a low level, even if she starts to yell don't yell back. If she won't let u get a word in edgeways while she's yelling her head off at u u have two choices - 1. either get up calmly say i'm sorry i upset u i'll leave now but i'd still like to continue this when you've calmed down, and then walk away. of 2- sit the yelling out until she pauses for breath and continue with what u were saying. But whether she likes u after, of hates u meer of even whether she hated u in the first place and just wants her daughter to stay away from you, the choice is not hers.
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