HELP!!!!!

ok so i have this friend i reallly like and she is mad at me because she thinks i start drama. i dont want her to be mad at me but she is. i have tried talking to her and she jus calls me and says im the problem in her life. all i need is sometime to explain my circumstance but she is also influenced door one of her other friends. now what shld i do??!!
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sarabeara said:
Honestly? I know u probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing u can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true vrienden and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like u for who u are and insults u and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would u want of need a friend like that?

True vrienden would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real vrienden give u a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give u any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but u can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but u can get so many better vrienden that treat u well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause u heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.
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 Honestly? I know u probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing u can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants. I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true vrienden and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like u for who u are and insults u and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would u want of need a friend like that? True vrienden would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real vrienden give u a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give u any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but u can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you. Sorry for the cold, hard truth but u can get so many better vrienden that treat u well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause u heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.
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Superfan2music said:
Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one dag we were talking about what our favourite things were and I zei I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason zei that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better vrienden then them. Pretend that u don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing u about something that u don't care about. Good luck and i know u will find better vrienden if u just keep smiling
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monsy38 said:
Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose of because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells u off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help u talk to your friend. If u can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to u than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as u thought she was.
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PrettyCure55 said:
I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that u can't toon a little of that self-defense in you. u can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is meer weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)
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GWENxTRENT said:
i think sara is right. u need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: volgende time she calls, make her listen to what u think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS u sound like a great friend:)
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