HELP

Okay. There are two types of protective: the good kind and the bad kind.

Good kind: for example, doesn't want u to do drugs cause he doesn't want u to ruin your future.

Bad kind: for example, doesn't want u to hang out with any guy friends, wants u to spend meer time with him and less time with your other friends, wants u to quit sports of clubs cause you're "neglecting" him.

So it really depends on the situation. Now if he's getting so protective to the point that he's scaring you, that a BAD BAD thing.

I know u probably don't care about my similar experience, but I used to have this boyfriend named Brad who was bipolar. He would freak out cuz I was just talking to other guys. He'd randomly get angry at me for things that weren't my fault (like not calling him back because I was busy studying). He'd always like interrogate me like "where were u last night?" "who were u with?" I got so sick of it that I finally broke up with him. He practically begged to get me back but I was done. I wouldn't take him back. Then like a maand later I got a new boyfriend. Brad got so angry and tried to beat up my new boyfriend. I'm so glad now that I got away from him.

So basically, here's my point: there's a BIG difference between protectiveness and posessiveness (like he wants to control what u do and whom u hang out with).

Lastly, if you're only with this guy cause he's "hot" that's NOT a good enough reason to stay with him. My advice: end the relationship before things become too serious and before he has a chance to try and control you.

That depends on what it is u are involved in. It might be a bad thing and that's why he's so overprotective. However, if it's not than it means that he really likes you, but if u think that this is too much worrying from him than u need to tell him to give u your space. Also if u only like him because he is hot than perhaps you're not into him for the right reason. It's still obvious that u guys are totally into each other so i would try to work it all out, like promise to be meer carefull and he promises to not overreact. If it EVER goes past only scaring u (And even that is already bad) than u need to leave him. You're in a relationship to be happy, not to be afraid

My boyfriend does the same.i like it when he punches someone and his overhemd, shirt gets torn..;p;p;p;p;p
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