Im gonna lose my best friend.

b4 we became vrienden she had a best friend. they were practically sisters. Well 2 years geleden she left and never came back. without warning. She called my best friend last week and zei she is coming back in two months. and once she does she is going to spend all her time with my best friend. and there will no longer be room for me. i know this sounds really snotty and rude but i dont wanna share her, and i need help. Should i tell my best friend how i feel? of just suffer in silence?
 Metal_chick1749 posted een jaar geleden
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sarabeara said:
Without a doubt tell your best friend how u feel. Tell her that you're afraid that if her best friend comes back you're afraid you'll be left out. I'm sure she won't get angry at you, if anything she'll try to include u in meer things and try to make u feel not left out. Plus, try to get to know the old best friend. u might find that u like her too. I know they always say "3 is a crowd" of whatever but that's not always true. In middle school, it was always me, my friend Kim, and her friend Beth. I never felt left out because we did everything together.

So definately tell her. It's always better to communicate feelings rather than wonder what could have been if u would have told her the truth.
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Agreed :) I have 2 best vrienden and it always works! (although I know that u may not like the other girl as much))
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mickis14 said:
Oh it´s nO snotty i don´t like to share my bff too :)
i think u should tell your friend
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iluvfezandkelso said:
u need to tell ur bff how u feel
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MISSLOVATOSTAR1 said:
I know wat your going threw ,but u just can't keep her all two yourself , thats how u lose vrienden . U should really talk two her sbout how u feel . It's always good to talk about something that might be messing with u .
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rosenda said:
u should tell ur bff!!! that happen to me i didn't wanted to share my bf bt even though i didn't told her i met her other BF n i like her a lot so we became best friends!!! the three of us best vrienden forever!!!! good luck
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mis_24_lover said:
if shes not happy with u then let gfo of her!!! u should be happy wherever of what ever is her dicission right???
so go wiyh the flow
if shes going toi find other friend then u should find for other too
but if dont have any choise let goi of her thats the best thing ypu can do for her this time okey????????=}

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Norrapang said:
defenitely talk to her
if she's really your friend, she'll listen to u and try to include you
if she's not...well, she's not worth it
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shadow-angel said:
Tell her how u feel. u guys are friends....she'll understand. And if she doesn't, then she's not much of a friend and u should verplaats on....Good luck....
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MuniekaXo said:
The best thing to do is tell her how u feel and if shez a good friend she'll understand if not friendz come and they go its a test to toon u if shez a real friend of not... Gud LuCK!
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wierdgem7 said:
Aaaaw, i nearly cried when i read that. I think u should tell her, and if she gets kruis and says your snotty of rude then shes not a good friend. Maybe u could make vrienden with her old best friend and u could be a group. See my best friend had another best friend once but they fell out, so I became her new Best friend. Then she made up with her old best friend. I got to know her and now were a group!!
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