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Ive got love issues.. well hart-, hart break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a maand ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a maand with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. of that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i love him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted een jaar geleden
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my advice would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a vrienden maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park of i dunno what ever makes u happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take u mind off things and lots of giggles when u fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and vrienden are for life ideology is a great start
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted een jaar geleden
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted een jaar geleden
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet u are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think u should give him up. and u dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, u have a life to verplaats on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt u door the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted een jaar geleden
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If it wasn't any good when u were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted een jaar geleden
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mm yeah..
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JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if u really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your hart-, hart and u can still datum other guys plus if u get to know him while your vrienden with him well maybe eventually maybe u could start dating again but at least u will have something to stand on while/if u datum again u know meer about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your hart-, hart and think about your possible antwoorden listen to your favoriete muziek while u think it will help u even meer {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke u hart-, hart twice ouch}
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
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