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sarabeara said:
u have got to be blunt and brutally honest with your ex (Not saying to be mean, just tell her exactly how u feel). Tell her that u don't want to get back in a relationship with her because u like someone else now and if the relationship didn't work the first time, it probably won't work the seconde time. Tell her that what u had is now over and that you're over her.
Now, the harder part is being in love with the best friend thing. My honest advice is to wait a few months. I know a few months seems like an EXTREMELY long amount of time to wait to tell someone u like them, but trust me, it's worth it (If u are truly in love with her, then that won't change after the few months is up). If u find that u don't like her as much after the months have passed and u find yourself attracted to someone else, then u luckily didn't jeopordize your friendship, and u can now go on like it never happened. However, if u still feel exactly the same after the couple of months, then tell her how u feel about her. But be careful when taking the plunge: there's no going back. Your friendship is officially changed from that point forward. The main thing to ask yourself is "is it worth it?" Do u honestly think you're going to spend the rest of your life with her? Cause if not, then it's not worth it. If u two break up, u lose not only your lover, but your friend (I'm not saying that if u break up it'll be impossible to still be vrienden after, it'll just be verrrry complicated). Are u willing to risk it all for a silly teen crush? (I'm assuming you're a teenager, sorry if I'm wrong lol) :)
I hate to sound like a downer, but it's the truth. Trust me, been there, gone through all this shit.
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