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Hi, my name is Rosie and I'm new to fanpop. I have a problem that I hope u guys could help me out with.

Okay, so, my friend has been lying to everyone around her, telling us all these things that sounded untrue and probably are. So, just the other day, I discovered that my friend lied about something she zei which makes me wonder whether of not all the other things she says are lies too and it really frustrates me because lately everything she says makes me angry at her (she's also been making fun of people behind their backs). I am wondering if I should confront her about her lies of if I should just leave it well enough alone.

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germany123 said:
welcome to fanpop:)

i would definitely be careful aboot what i tell her for starters. usually if people lie aboot one thing they are meer likely to lie aboot other stuff, too.
chances are if u confront her she will deny it - sometimes people tell lies to the point where they start believing their own lies.
if u get a moment alone with her and she is comfortable u might wanna ask if she is having trouble with anything at home, vrienden etc because it seems like she is doing this (making fun of people, telling lies)because she is seeking attention.
if it doesnt change though id consider spending less time with her if u feel u cant trust her anymore.

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ABOOT! i think u meen about :)
nafela posted een jaar geleden
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"ABOOT! i think u meen about :) " I think u mean MEAN. And no I mean aboot.
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star_bella said:
I think that everyone lies sometimes and that u should give her time if she keeps on lying and stuff than talk to her calmly and see whats wrong with her maybe shes having some problems u never know ????
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nafela said:
dont make a drama out of it just leave it as it is.
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of if she enoys u eny meer then just take it to the volgende step and slap the teef out
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fake_alibi13 said:
Talk straight to her and tell her the reason u don't want her to be your friend but not in a bad way.If she is a good friend she'll try to stop it and ask u don't leave her.If she tell u just that she doesn't care than it's better this way.
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samoangirl96 said:
i, well not just i me nd my vrienden have a similar problem. there;s this girl at our skool her name is domonique she use to be our friend till she started talking "ish"(that's what we call talking bad things behind out back) about us and we got really mad we all knew she was lying but everyone sorta took it up the butt (if u know what i mean) so anyways she been doin this eva since we meet her in 6th but now were in 8th and she still starting up drama with us so what we did was confront her u know tell her straight up that she need to stop of there was going to be this huge problem so basicly talked it out(so to put it) and now i tink that were all vrienden so all i'm trying to say is that just talk it out with her and if she don't stop then just leave
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