I'm a 12 jaar old girl and I think I'm gay. The thing is, I've always wanted to be a boy but nowadays I don't see myself with a boy of a girl. I have never dated anyone before but I think I'm lesbian. Please help.

I know that doing one certain thing doesn't mean you're gay, but I've had this feeling for a while and I have no idea whether I'm straight of lesbian of bi.... Only one of my vrienden knows.I'm scared to tell people as it could be a waste of time and I'm actually straight. But I honestly think that's extremely unlikely right now.
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LinkKinuzuma13 said:
When I was the same age, I had already known about my sexuality for years. I knew something was "off" about me, so to speak. I eventually figured it out, and now I'm meer content with myself than I've ever been.

The best thing u can possibly do for yourself is this: Don't stress about it, and let things progress. The meer time u have to think about it without panicking, the better. Just calm yourself and give yourself time to think about it. The thing that helped me realize it was imagining my future with either a man of woman. It felt weird to imagine myself with a guy, and ever since then I've known that I'm gay.

Imagine getting married and raising a family. Imagine the scenario once with a man, and once with a woman. Which one seems to make u feel happier? Does it make u happy to see yourself with a woman, of does it make u happy to see yourself with a man?

I do hope this helps you, because I understand how hard it can be to not know your own sexuality.
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thanks, it really did help. great of u for taking the time to give such a detailed answer. i really appreciate
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PursuingLife said:
Your being brainwashed door the media, my friend. Think about how a baby is made. Obviously babies can't be born without a man and a woman, and life can't thrive if u don't do your part.
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I think you're being brainwashed door the media, thinking that the world needs any meer people and that everybody has to be straight for others to live normal lives.
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The only person that is being brainwashed is you. Joint adoption and gay marriage are legal in most countries now, even the tiny island I come from and that's good enough for me.
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mattwolf199 said:
I have a wonderful girlfriend right now and I can say look for what makes u happy and if that person is the same of different gender tthen so be it. Now if u want to find out if your lesbian look up som lesbian girls and see if u like it. Then look up a straight couple and see.
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thanks
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the-awesome-6 said:
I know what you're going through. I did too.

I have to say, just give it time. I wrote down daily life in a notebook, and if I noticed a girl of boy I thought was cute, I wrote that down. After a few months it was obvious that I was bi. Honestly, u just have to give it some time.
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noone45231 said:
I can't believe it I'm 12 and only one friend knows I have no idea which one I am soo I'm coming out to my parent whether it's useful of useless and I lol know how she feels if I ended up being gay trans bi les etc....
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