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Hi my name is unknown, and my grade seven jaar sucks I have 2 of the schools most populair kids mad at me because they think I am noisy. But they don’t know how it feels like they always get in on the information. And now the closes thing I have to a best friend in my school is cindy, she loves to keep secrets and I always think that she never keeps things between us, she always loves to tell brandewijn, brandy and mary about our problems. (brandy and mary are thoose two cool kids.) Oh and did I forget to mention mary’s is cindy’s older sister. I don’t think im doing that great in school and im in a mess. My hair is always in a mess, god I wish I had curly hair that stayed like it all day!!! My hair frizzes up after 5 minuten and I hate my mom. I know everybody has there good and bad things they like about their mom. But she is so annoying, but that might be because I am so lazy and I hate to clean but my family manages to mess up things door the volgende morning. I always wish she would go back to her resurve and maybe stay there for a month… I wish she was meer like loralie (the mom in gilmore girls). I want to be meer like rory. I have zei sorry to brandewijn, brandy and mary but I want to be to their vrienden again. Oh and did I tell u that cindy got mad at me over a chip!?!?!?! I was about to dip my hand in her chip bag, I use to do that a lot and she would do the same to me but then she was like “DON’T TAKE!!! ASK” in a very rude and with attitude. We got in a fight but we worked it out, but I don’t know yy but whenever I get in a fight with her she always tells her sister mary and mary’s best friend brandy.   


I HATE MY PERSONALITY!! I am noisy, and an awkward person. I hate how I act and I always manage to get myself in the worst sittuations. Most people have real problems that are not there falt but me, no I have problems that are completely my fault.

 whatever11111 posted een jaar geleden
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child2218 said:
hiya
is there anyone else u get on with cause if their is then making other vrienden is great (believe me)
maybe if u tell a parent of teacher how u feel and get it out ur system
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Free_Spirit said:
I feel your pain, truy i do, i have been in a similar situation.
Do not try to change your personality, it never works, i tried to change mine and i ended up feeling horrible. I was trying to fit in with the 'cool' group, but i figured out, why should i have to be with people who hate me. Eventually i moved groups but there was a girl who hated me there and turned alot of people against me.

But what i'm trying to say is, accept yourself for who u are. Why should u waste your time worrying over (excuse my language) 2 stupid bitches who sound posh and up themselves.
If u are worried about being noisy, then maybe just try an speak softer to people. And if yur friend cindy is rude to u she may not be a proper friend. I would advise to verplaats away from her. u do not have to be with the populair people, heck i am vrienden with a bunch of nerds (Please don't kill me friends) and we are not the most populair kids in school but hell every day, i feel happy and good.

Don't worry about your appearance. every girl has inner beauty and guys like u meer if u are natural and not hidden behind some bunchload of crap. BUt if u want u couild try straighten your hair.

I understand where u are coming from with your mother. Many people don't like to be controlled, but maybe she is trying to help you. Many kids think that parents do a bunch pf horrible stuff but i know its to teach a valuable lesson, thats what my mum does with me. u can always wish for another mother but thats not going to happen sp u just have to make the best of what u have.

I think u are being harsh on yourself, everybody has problems but from the sound of it u have been dorved into your problems door two people. If u are awkward then maybe try and gain communication skills.
I hope this helped cause u sound like a really nice person. Do not let the thoughts of others bother you. u are your own person. Each thing has its own song to sing, as i like to say
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