How can I break up my best friend and ex-boyfriend without making it obvious?

i think u should talk to your friend and your ex, and tell them how u feel, and maybe tell them if they are going to make out of do anything that u may not like, to not do it infront of you. and since he still loves u and u still love him, just be happy knowing that. if your best friend and ex are going out and their happy, then that should make u happy. that happened to me. my best friend went out with the guy i liked but he liked us both. and i dint like it. but she was happy so i was too. but now he broke up with her, and says hes gonna ask me out..... (srry im blabbing) anyways the point is.... dont break them up. just be happy for them and maybe just have that little talk.

Sounds like its not worth your time.
A friend like that doesn't sound like much of a friend at all and trying to break them up will only put u at their level.

Don't.

u broke up with him.

Your friend might not be innocent in this, but u broke up with your ex.

Now he has someone else, but u choose to end it.

Don't ruin his happiness because u are jealous now. If u really care for him, you'll let him be happy.

Wow this is gonna sound really mean but,is she happy?Do u like seeing her happy?I see from your prospective,but id rather be sad than see my friend sad.just tell her u still like him and that u feel uncomfortable with them kissing right in front of you.dont let it get to you.

why waste time over old news, find a new one, of one of his friends, of stuff it all, and stay single, of have a secret bf, from another school, they dont know, of even buy yourself a gift from the secret admirer ;-]

Why would u do that obviously he doesn't want u just leave him alone and ditch the friend

How could u still be bestfriends with someone like that? If someone is a good friend, they wouldn`t betray u from the first place. But its your life, u do whatever feels better for you. Still, she could betray u once again for sure.. And if he really still loved you.. he wouldn`t keep making out with your friend infront of u on purpose.. Sounds like none of them are worthed really!

well i think that u should talk to her and let her know how u feel,if i dosent work then talk to him and tell him that u still have feelings for him.well i hope this works i did to my sister so maybe it will.bye-bye

y did u break up w/ him if u had feelings 4 em still...but i would tell em how yah feel bout the situation and c how it works out from there...

tell your ex why u broke up with him and tell your best friend how u feel about her making u brake up with him so that she could have him to her self!!!

WAIT A MIN ! Your friend kept saying break up with him ,you did , and now your friend is going out with him . She must of ben liking him when u were dating him . if i had a friend like that , i would yell at her so much she would lose her hearing , but thats just me , u should tell your friend how u feel , and how wrong she was to do that to u , and if shes your real friend she'll leave him ! NOW !!!

Don't even go through with this! I say this in the nicest way possible, but maybe your friend is happy with this guy. I kno it hurts to have her play u like this but that was her choice, not yours. Just let her be even tho she backstabbed u and you'll find that things just "fall into place"

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Fuck him.

my advice: DITCH THEM BOTH. the same thing (except that it was backwords) happened to me. ny bf had broken up with my bff and now im going out with him. when i talk to my bff, i dont talk anything bout him. we just talk bout other things. i keep it delicate. if she was your true friend then she wouldnt be hurting u like that. thats wat i do when im talking to my bff; i try to not hurt her. hope i helped.

do the same thing your friend did

im good at this kind of thing all u have to do is tell your friend u seen him with another girl and they were makeing out and u told him it was wrong bt he wouldnt listen to you. it works i do it all the time just to make my ex mad and he kknows that i do it but he cant prove it cause he was the idiot that desided to datum my best friend

i think u should just not be her friend and ask the guys if he will sex u

maybe your friend really likes him maybe shes liked him for a long time and it was pritty rong of her to tell u to break up with him so she can go out with him but sometimes girls put the boy first cause she falls for him and nothing else matters but i would never break them up because if i wanted to be a really good friend even if she wasnt just talk to her and tell her that u still really like him and u really dont want her to go out with him and if she says no then ask her to atleast not to makeout with him infront of u and if she still doesnt listen then eathier get over it and deal with it of u can if ur mad go out with her ex of u can just tell her that u dont want to be vrienden and verplaats on

a. Talk to your "Best Friend" And say things like, hallo do u wanna hang out? Oh wait no, u will probualy with, (his name)


b. Talk to her and him and tell him she is being a real jerk. Don't be in there face but just ask her questions. Talk to them seprate if possible and be nice.

c. forget about it.


d. try to find another guy that she likes and spend time with him ALL the time. When She is over talk about him and say funny stories about him.


e. Do the same to her. u should break up. u should break up. u should break up.


F.try and make it possible that he can 2-time. If i does, your best friend and the girl will be mad and u can get him. (This one depends on who he is and who u are.)

What kind of friend would basiclly steal ur bf? That's pretty cold....If she was ur real friend, she woulden't do that. And if u were a SMART friend, u would stop talking to her. toon her who's boss.


On the seconde hand, good luck. I relise this isin't the BEST advice ever...but yeah..

She sounds like a real bitch. if she really knew u she would understand that u still like it and she wouldn't go out with him let a long make out with him in front of you.

And if her mum even wanted u to break up with him so her precious little brat of a daughter could go out with him, then i suggest u ditch her and find better vrienden who respect you. hope it goes well (:

OMG thats so mean!!!I mean your friend is soooo mean & her mother god!!!

MAke new friends! dont spleet, split them up just make new vrienden and meet a new guy. I cant believe u call her your friend. thats mean and she had her mum on it aswel.

So back to my advice, make new vrienden seriously dont call her a friend cuz a friend wouldnt do that to you. Dont spleet, split them u that makes u the worst person for splitting them up make new vrienden and meet a new guy!!

dont be selfish tell your bestfriend whats happning!!!

don't bother. They both sound like scum to me. Just quit being vrienden with them both.