So Ive seen all over how the Delena kiss was a pity kiss and it kinda makes me laugh. There is one other kiss I can compare it too and if u stick with me this may be long Im going to explain how the Delena kiss was not a pity kiss door tonen this other kiss from a couple I ship and how their first kiss was not a pity kiss and mears Delena in some ways.
Ron/Hermione Harry Potter: Now if u read the boeken you'll remember it took these two a long ezel time to finally see they liked each other. I compare Delena meer to Romione then to Spike and Buffy I just do. They had the fights, the angest, the "I like u but I deny it" aspects like Delena. Their first kiss was like DE's not out of pity, but at a time where one of the other could have died and there was that chance if that happened, neither would know how the other felt, Ron loved this girl he just didnt know how to tell her, same with Hermione. Its why she got so upset when he left in Deathy Hallows, he could have gotten killed and she at that time didnt let him know how she felt about him.
Now to compare the Delena and Romione kisses. They were a type of kiss gegeven not out of pity, but the best way u could toon someone without words how u truly feel about them, because both situations had the possible and very real outcome someone could die so in reality they were "This may be truly the last time I can toon u how I feel about u so if u die at least u did knowing I loved you" kisses. In Delenas case it was Elena tonen him she has feelings for him, not love yet, but very strong feelings.
Neither Damon of Ron asked for a kiss. Damon was making his last amends saying he was sorry to have caused Elena pain, seeing he was wrong to blame Stefan basically saying hes sorry, Ron was tonen how selfless he was caring about getting house elves out of the school so they wouldnt end up like Dobby. Due to these two guys were thinking about others before themselves, the feelings these two girls have for them came out in a kiss.
Sorry if this makes no sense it does to me lol.
Ron/Hermione Harry Potter: Now if u read the boeken you'll remember it took these two a long ezel time to finally see they liked each other. I compare Delena meer to Romione then to Spike and Buffy I just do. They had the fights, the angest, the "I like u but I deny it" aspects like Delena. Their first kiss was like DE's not out of pity, but at a time where one of the other could have died and there was that chance if that happened, neither would know how the other felt, Ron loved this girl he just didnt know how to tell her, same with Hermione. Its why she got so upset when he left in Deathy Hallows, he could have gotten killed and she at that time didnt let him know how she felt about him.
Now to compare the Delena and Romione kisses. They were a type of kiss gegeven not out of pity, but the best way u could toon someone without words how u truly feel about them, because both situations had the possible and very real outcome someone could die so in reality they were "This may be truly the last time I can toon u how I feel about u so if u die at least u did knowing I loved you" kisses. In Delenas case it was Elena tonen him she has feelings for him, not love yet, but very strong feelings.
Neither Damon of Ron asked for a kiss. Damon was making his last amends saying he was sorry to have caused Elena pain, seeing he was wrong to blame Stefan basically saying hes sorry, Ron was tonen how selfless he was caring about getting house elves out of the school so they wouldnt end up like Dobby. Due to these two guys were thinking about others before themselves, the feelings these two girls have for them came out in a kiss.
Sorry if this makes no sense it does to me lol.
