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Damon & Elena What's the hardest part about being a DE shipper?

163 fans picked:
Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves
   69%
Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up
   15%
Getting few of no DE scenes for a few weeks
   4%
Worrying that the 'B' word will become a reality one dag
   4%
Julie and Kevin disrespecting DE and the fans, like calling the fandom 'baffling'
   3%
Bashing from SE and BD shippers
   2%
Worrying that Exec Producer Kevin secretly prefers SE
   1%
Other (please state what it is in commentaren section)
   1%
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charlieke001 picked Other (please state what it is in commentaren section):
All of them! No DE scenes for weeks, SE and BD shippers always teasing DE shippers, worried B is gonna become reality, afraid it's always gonna be SE and being afraid of the script (please more DE!). I love that the writers are going slow with their 'relationship' but please don't mess it up! Their relationship is too vulnerable for that.
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Aubreykarew picked Getting few of no DE scenes for a few weeks:
all of them but this one more cause less delena scenes n more of those freakin irritable stelena scenes
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inuyashagirl82 picked Bashing from SE and BD shippers:
other ships not liking us partly because we have the most fans.
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minimew037 picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
All of the above :S
I hate this fear...I also hate that damn "B" word
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Ketsia picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
i always get the feeling that the producer will always make elena choose Stefan..
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brokenheartlove picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
That is so sad... If Elena ALWAYS chooses Stefan, I will be heartbroken *cries*... If only....
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DelenaLover picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
Pretty much all of this. I don't even want to think about the B word, it makes me sick.
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nneellliii picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
i always get the feeling that the producer will always make elena choose Stefan..


Yeah, I get THAT stupid nagging feeling, too.*rolls eyes*


Pretty much all of this. I don't even want to think about the B word, it makes me sick.


And, THIS so much!
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katie15 picked Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up:
Elena IS going to love Damon and I have a strong feeling they will be end + I don't think Bamon will ever happen because it would ruin Damon's character, lose a big fanbase and there are a lot of Jonnie shippers now.
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NateHeartSerena picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
Bamon don't concern me. If that happens it'll be a joke.


Stelena are truly a threat though seeing as they stay so strong in the books.... I'm just hoping the overwhelming amount of DE shippers could make the show change it.

It happened with GG. Blair/Nate all through the books just Chuck/Blair in the show because there were so many fans. Here's hoping DE can do the same.
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detty4ever picked Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up:
I'm not afraid that it will always be Stefan, simply because she said so!When they repeat stuff like that in a tv show like: "always", "never", "I don't deserve you", etc. I know that the opposite is gonna happen!

Getting few or no DE scenes for a few weeks is really upsetting, but I keep repeating to mysef that this is just S2 and if we want the DE to be endgame, we have to be patient.Plus when they don't give us many DE moments for 2 or 3 eppies, I know that usually in the 4rth one something big is gonna happen!

I guess that by the "B" word, you mean Bamon..No I'm not afraid of that either! Bonnie and our boy have nothing! Plus it'll show inconsistency in Damon's character!Damon can only truly love one woman and that's Elena.

The bashing from other shippers sucks..I really can't stand the haters, but at the end of the day I don't really care! They only do it in an effort to steal some of our shine!But they can't!

Disrespectful comments from the writers also suck, but I quess that they try to keep everyone happy in order not to lose any viewers..

Kevin comfuses me, just when I think he's a SE shipper he says things like that "I don't just want to throw them together tomorrow. I'd be sad. I want to see the kiss, I want to see the sweaty palms, I want to see it all go down." that make me love him!

So I quess that my biggest fear as a DE shipper is that the writers will mess things up either by puting them together too early or by making us wait too long or by making Damon look bad someway..
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tvdabst picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
The one thing I'm sure I'll never have to worry about is the 'B' word.
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Ginn picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
I surely don't worry about is the 'B' word, I think Kevin is a secret DE shipper too and I think the baffling-fanbase thing is just a misunderstanding, but I'm a little worried about how they're gonna make it end...Let's hope Delena!!
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Through_MyBlood picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
and getting no scenes and the all the producers thing!!
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tellymaster picked Getting few of no DE scenes for a few weeks:
Honestly, all of the above. That's the hardest thing. But I'm always sad by the end of an episode if there aren't any DE scenes. I'm afraid of the 'B' word, yes, but I'm not that concerned about it. And also that Elena will always choose Stefan in the end. Like, what if Stefan is a huge jerk and Damon is nice in an episode? Something tells me that Elena will just go right on back to Stefan. =/ *SIGH*
The writers as well. I know they will do something to screw it up.
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I find all of the picks I listed pretty tough, to be honest. I hate not getting a decent DE scene - I think in every episode, we should have at least one. I hate the bashing and the shipper rivalry - I found it very hurtful when one SE shipper wrote on our wall yesterday about how the 2x08 scene was more about SE and the Salvatore bros than it was about Damon loving Elena. I found Julie's twitter comment just insane, and it made me re-think how much she actually liked DE and us. I've decided not to read any of her or Kevin's interviews anymore, I feel terribly distrustful of them both. There are a lot of producers on the show, but Kevin and Julie seem to have the most power and they could totally screw DE over. The love triangle has yet to become real (yeah, I know we're only at episode 9, season 2). But a lot could go wrong. I would probably have a fit if I named them all. They could let it progress too slowly, or the triangle might never get off the ground, or we're never convinced Elena loves Damon, Damon could do something to drive her away right at the beginning of their relationship...Elena could ditch Damon to go back to Stefan because he needs her more...and on and on.

I'm not worried about Bamon really. I don't think they're a threat. Bonnie helping Damon out in Plan B is about as good a relationship the BD shippers can expect to see. I find the Bamon fans a bigger concern, like the way they continually ask when Bonnie will be cosying up to Damon, in spite of the fact that Damon has just told Elena he loves her. It's like they're watching a different show from everyone else. But I don't think the writers are interested in Bamon. If they were, they could very easily be taking steps to put them together now. I think our biggest threat/concern is SE. Despite the fact that they're relationship is one big snoozefest, there's no denying they love each other very much and remain devoted to each other no matter what. It'll take a lot of work to damage their relationship. I don't want Elena to go to Damon just because she's split up with Stefan; but I hate the thought that she might continually overlook Damon regardless of how much he loves her and all the things I know he'll do to protect her.
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NCISLuverjk93 picked Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up:
Alot of these but this is my biggest fear. Either making Stelena endgame, or making Bamon happen. Or just as horrible would be giving Delena stupid scenes. I don't want them to be OOC at all, not too cheesy, not boring, etc.
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Nutika picked Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up:
I voted for one which makes me worry the most but everything is bad for Delena fans! But i understand that this things could happen
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xIXIxRSBxIXIx picked Other (please state what it is in commentaren section):
We took the hard road being DE shippers so I guess we all will have something to worry about but mine is that they'll have such an amazing journey and that both characters will evolve so much but it still will be Stelena. I mean if they fell in love the way SE did and they just had sexual tension and none of them really changed much then i wouldn;t really give a damn who she ends up with. But mostly its the wait because im a really impatient person.
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Sharon27 picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
Charlieke001, you put it perfectly and in so few words!
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iandamonfan picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
-Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up: Damon breaking Jeremy's neck right in front of Elena was a close one, over the edge.
-Worrying that the 'B' word will become a reality one day: not afraid at all about that, at least in the TV show, the books are different. They could never work.
-Julie and Kevin disrespecting DE and the fans, like calling the fandom 'baffling': I convince myself everyday that they're just messing with all of us Delena shippers because we're the biggest fanbase and they ust like to mess with us.
-Getting few or no DE scenes for a few weeks: There's always YouTube. God knows the many times I replayed Delena scenes. But if we're talking about 3 or more weeks with absolutely no Delena then that's another story... Kevin and Julie, I'll hunt you down unitl I get my Delena scenes.
-Bashing from SE and BD shippers: I don't really find their bashing a hard part of being DE fan... I enjoy it. I like a little fight now and then... besides I know I'm on the winning side. ;)
-Worrying that Exec Producer Kevin secretly prefers SE: he can prefer SE all he wants but when we demand his head on a platter for not giving us Delena I wonder if he'll jump the ship...
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tamamakururu picked Bashing from SE and BD shippers:
Bashing from other fans.. its so annoying !!
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cintia_cs picked Getting few of no DE scenes for a few weeks:
I seriously don't care about other people's opinion or if they're bashing the DE fans. The worst part is not getting a lot of DE scenes. Of course her choosing Stefan everytime is not good either. :/
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epicdelena4ever picked Being afraid that the writers will do something stupid to mess everything up:
THIS.
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danna85 picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
STEFAN AND ELENA duh
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loopylou098 picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
all of them but this is that will be hardest for me to accept but it wont happen
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sophievn picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
I'm really afraid of that :(
I hope Delena is gonna be endgame, but i think it's gonna be Stelena :( Because i think the producers are all crazy about Stefan and Elena.Let's hope i'm wrong!
I will always ship Delena no matter what<3
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Dark-Girl picked Worrying that the 'B' word will become a reality one dag:
ALLLLLLLL!!! :-((
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overthedges picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
i think it's gonna be Stelena in the end ;(
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mata1987 picked Being afraid that it will always be Stefan Elena chooses/loves:
i scared about this if stelena will be endgame my heart will be broken and julie and kevin dissapointed me :((( i hope delena going endgame
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