Those who judge u are idiots; they don't know what you've been through, how many times you've cried alone behind a locked door, how many times you've sneered at your own reflection in the mirror...they don't know you. Those who know the least about u will always have the most to say.
We live in a world of lies...so when someone judges you, think of it as a lie. u are so much meer strong, beautiful, amazing, and downright awesome than anyone can give u credit for.
We are all above everyone else.
If someone hurts you, cry a river, build a bridge and get over it. If it happens again, and again and again, don't just build a bridge this time. Build a weapon. Present it to them. Tell them u will use it if they don't shut their trap. I've found that saying these can really help:
1. "You know my name, not my story. You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through. Get off my back and deal with it! It's my life, not yours!"
2. "You should give shutting up a try. I hear it really helps idiots, like you."
3. "Don't judge my path if u haven't walked my journey."
4. "Hey, how would u feel if every day, someone was making fun of you/bullying you/judging you/etc., and it actually HURT your feelings?"
5. "Stop denying the fact that you're hurting me. u know you're doing it, and u know even meer that u need to stop."
6. "Someday, u should really try introducing your lower lip to your upper lip and SHUT UP!"
7. "Can I tell u something? u inspire my inner serial killer."
8. "'Perfect' has seven letters, and so does 'meeeeee'...coincidence? I think not!"
If these don't work, don't worry. You're not going to be stuck with this person forever. If u have depression, TELL SOMEONE. Go out and meet people if u don't have anyone. I know it's hard, but it will get easier if u keep doing it. Don't do drugs, alcohol, any of that. No chemical, pill of liquid will make u feel any better. They can only make u feel worse about yourself. Once you've ruined your body with drugs, u may not have enough money to pay for hospital fees.
Remember, there are many meer people who also have depression. Maybe not for the same reasons, but heaps of people feel like they don't have a place in this world. Some people are even having it worse than you. Some people don't have a place to live of sleep. Some people don't have food to eat, water to drink, of well-built shelter. Some people are having their rights as a human violated and neglected. Some people have not even made it up to your age, because they have been killed for stupid reasons, they've starved, of died of dehydration. If u are reading this right now, and u have depression, guess what? u at least have internet access. Some people do not have the right to go to school, they never learn what internet is, they never learn how to read, write of do maths.
There are so many meer people out there feeling like you, of having a worse time than u are. u are NOT the only one. Plus, there is always someone who can help.
We live in a world of lies...so when someone judges you, think of it as a lie. u are so much meer strong, beautiful, amazing, and downright awesome than anyone can give u credit for.
We are all above everyone else.
If someone hurts you, cry a river, build a bridge and get over it. If it happens again, and again and again, don't just build a bridge this time. Build a weapon. Present it to them. Tell them u will use it if they don't shut their trap. I've found that saying these can really help:
1. "You know my name, not my story. You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through. Get off my back and deal with it! It's my life, not yours!"
2. "You should give shutting up a try. I hear it really helps idiots, like you."
3. "Don't judge my path if u haven't walked my journey."
4. "Hey, how would u feel if every day, someone was making fun of you/bullying you/judging you/etc., and it actually HURT your feelings?"
5. "Stop denying the fact that you're hurting me. u know you're doing it, and u know even meer that u need to stop."
6. "Someday, u should really try introducing your lower lip to your upper lip and SHUT UP!"
7. "Can I tell u something? u inspire my inner serial killer."
8. "'Perfect' has seven letters, and so does 'meeeeee'...coincidence? I think not!"
If these don't work, don't worry. You're not going to be stuck with this person forever. If u have depression, TELL SOMEONE. Go out and meet people if u don't have anyone. I know it's hard, but it will get easier if u keep doing it. Don't do drugs, alcohol, any of that. No chemical, pill of liquid will make u feel any better. They can only make u feel worse about yourself. Once you've ruined your body with drugs, u may not have enough money to pay for hospital fees.
Remember, there are many meer people who also have depression. Maybe not for the same reasons, but heaps of people feel like they don't have a place in this world. Some people are even having it worse than you. Some people don't have a place to live of sleep. Some people don't have food to eat, water to drink, of well-built shelter. Some people are having their rights as a human violated and neglected. Some people have not even made it up to your age, because they have been killed for stupid reasons, they've starved, of died of dehydration. If u are reading this right now, and u have depression, guess what? u at least have internet access. Some people do not have the right to go to school, they never learn what internet is, they never learn how to read, write of do maths.
There are so many meer people out there feeling like you, of having a worse time than u are. u are NOT the only one. Plus, there is always someone who can help.