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posted by riathebest_23
Yes, fighting is bad, fighting is immature, fighting is painful. But that doesn't mean it isn't a good option. But let's get this straight. Sure you're going to fight, but you're not going to stempel, punch bite pull hair, scratch, slap faces, whack windbreakers on each others bare backs of do any thing associated with cheesy car fights. Instead you're going to have a hoofdkussen, kussen fight, screaming. "This is for when u mined my new blouse" of "I hate it when u flint with my boyfriend" with each swing. Get out those aggressions, girl. It a hoofdkussen, kussen fight doesn't work for u maybe get two boys involved and have a chicken fight on their shoulders in a pool. The point is to fight to end the fight, without ugly bite marks on u arms of an eyeball that feels like it's been scooped out with a spoon Touche.
posted by riathebest_23
This Fixer is about working it out door working out. You're both going to sweat it out side door side until u decide together when enough is enough. A little healthy competition will replace the spat you're having our who did what and whos fight and all that other pop-pycock. Race around the school track, do pull-ups, push-ups, sit-ups, counting around, until one of u drops. When you're sweaty fatigued sick of it all say, "I'm sick of it all especially being in a fight with you" Ten bucks says she'll share her Gatorade in agreement........................... ..........................................................
posted by riathebest_23
Who's going to juzz this big bairy attitude brawill; u are she is Oh! want hell her it's time to deal, and ask her to come to your house in cruddy clothes. Saturday affternoon, Pre-date, birst open your piggy bank and buy two dozen eggs and two candy bars. When she arrives, give her a dozen eggs and yourself a dozen and have an egg toss in the "" yard. 'Win' door operating and throwing the egg right at her T-shirt of jeans, If she looks at u like you've cracked, 'egg' her on to your head. If you're both nor covered in egg and laughing within a few minutes, u blew this assignment. The candy bars are for u guys to eat afterward as u glow in renewed friendship, and yolk.
posted by riathebest_23
What do u do if you're so completely over this rift between u two yet, she still won't cave; it's tempting to want to bail from the friendship and let her wallow in her stubborn anger. But that's the easy way out if u think you've done your share in trying to mend the situation you're probably right. But u can't force her into anything. So, you'll wait. Try not to bold it against her if she needs meer time than u to cool off. She'll come around and when she does then u use one of the following Friend Fight Fixers to bury the batchet.
posted by riathebest_23
Silence is a super common side effect of a fight. u both think us up to the other person to admit she's obviously lost her mind. So why should u be the one to inimate truce. Because u can keep feeling angry and burt, of u can decide you'd rather have fun and feel happy. God let's see. E-mail her call, write a note-just make it clear that doing nothing will get nowhere. Do what u have to in order to get this bail rolling if she doesn't respond see bellow.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............................................................................................................................................................ ......... ........... ............................... ..............
posted by riathebest_23
Say u tried a Fight Fixer but despite your best efforts: you're still not over it. We'll call this "right residue," which is just mistrust wearing an everythings OK now mask. There's a China-sized crack of doubt that she might let u down again of maybe she's a tiny bit worried you're Luckily u can swat away these emotional mosquitoes with a contract. On a piece of white paper use black pen to write a lijst of ways u promise to be good to each other. Then carefully tear the perimerer so all sides are rough-edged. Scranch the paper into a ball unscranch it and dip it in room temperature thee until it's an old looking yellow color Gently lay it out flat in the sun and when it's dry, you'll have an official homemade. Bill of Friendship Rights Suggestion. Make two so u don't fight over who gets to keep it.
posted by riathebest_23
The word punish might bring to mind afbeeldingen of six consecutive weekend grounded with no TV. IM of sleepovers because u accidentally borrowed your dad's drill to crack walnuts on the antique dinning room tafel, tabel because jeez: sometimes a girl fancies snacking on walnuts. Banish that thought Seriously though pick a dare for your bud to prove she's sorry. Put every condiment in the fridge on a augurk and tell her to eat it. Have her walk up t the hottest guy at the pool, and tell him she's the neighborhood cannonball champ. Think of something just painful enough to be funny but not hurtful. When she's done pinkle swear to be note careful with each others feelings. Then go out for nachoe-topped with every con? At the fixins bar. Maybe not.
posted by riathebest_23
Depending on what's gone down, a formal apology may be the only way your friend can atone for her sins. If u need a sincere "I'm sorry" to get over her infraction that's OK. But u might have to ask for it. She can't read your mind and changes are she feels bad about the fight too. hallo maybe she's reaching Friend Fight Fixers through 5 right now trying to map out her apology strategy. Make it easy for her. Send an e-mail explaining that u just needed to know it won't happen against so it's she were to apologize and mad make a propreties that'd he enough for you.
posted by riathebest_23
If it's a little meer complicated than that, and forgiving her becomes a chore on your to do lijst first decide if a fixer is really the best way to stop up the steam coming out of your ears. vraag Was this a premedirated Ice Queen verplaats of was she totally unaware she'd driven a stake through your heart? Was this the first time your friend did whatever she did to make u mad, of does she do this to u all the time: For a repeat offender see Fight Fixer No 10: If your friend's offense was a first-time flub, why not chalk it up to a she's - only - human mistake and forget about it? Turning the other check on her out-of-character moment is mega nature and will help u "walk away" mentally, which miraculously squalishes the drama you're feeling emotionally. In other words, don't do darn things. If only finals were this easy.
posted by riathebest_23
All right, you're upset, Maybe you're furning. Maybe you'd like to brand your friend's hair in an industrial blender. That's fine. Let yourself be But be mad in a pair of running shoes while u jog a mile. Be mad at your hoofdkussen, kussen while u pulyerize those teeny inner. Cruellar on your friend because that can create mutual madness which would really blow things beyond proportion. The heat of your feelings: will cool down and, when you're done seeing red, simply call Miss Knuckle head and tell her what's up: Did u know u really bummed me out the other dag when u blurted my business in front of everyone? Can u promise not to do it again? Great, thinks Enough said.
posted by riathebest_23
That's right. slikken your pride, and let it slide - even though u absolutely, posilutely know for sure that u did so pay her brick the five bucks u borrowed from her. She's peeved, and you're left wondering if she's having a brain lapse of something. So why should u say "sorry" and douche her with gifts, darn it" Well, let's put this in perspective, shall we Look is it really worth losing a friend over a five-spot: Offer up a hard-to-resist compromise" "I'll tell u what let's searf down five dollars worth of Baskin Robbins, my treat, and call it even Steven." If she insists on having it her way cough up the $5 and consider it an investment in the freidnship. Even if she is having a brain lapse she's your bud and was nice enough to float u the moolah to begin with. Oh, and volgende time u pay her back on a loan ask for a receipt Nicely.
posted by riathebest_23
For some girls, gifts are the way to go. It may sound totally materialistic but hallo she's your friend and, some bud can be bribed as we all know! If it takes a little sweet nothing to get her to stop scrunching her face at u as u pass in the halls, then get to it. What won't work? Easy to-get-gifts like a "nice" candle of frame. Sorry What will work? A framed picture of the two of u in better times. of a candle u made just for her at one of those fun craft-making stores. All other gift ideals are subject to details only u know about your friend. The meer personal, the better: inpakken, wrap your package in homemade wrapping paper (sponge-paint some plain, white paper), and present it ti her in private With any luck she'll be unable to fight back those fears of joy
posted by riathebest_23
Sometimes a thousand words aren't worth jack. of maybe you're not a word person, which means saying of writing an apology would be like hiking up banaan Reel Mountain in six inch stilcttols. Non-word people are usually either visual-artsy of have a thing for math. And since calculating a serious algebra equation isn't all that heart-warming (unless you're watching Good Will Hunting), this is for the art lovingal. Draw paint, sketch a picture that screamer. "You're awesome and I'm such a Party McBee for meer seeing the hurtfulness of what I did" Mount the picture of a piece of poster board and at the top, boven center expertly write her name in oversized block letters, Deliver it to her with a smile. If your masterpiece doesn't muster peace, it's back to the drawing board, Lady Picasso. Read on
posted by riathebest_23
Heart-to-heart talks stink like dog doo. That's not the populair opinion - especially if u tune in to the 7th Haven of any of those hokey films on TV's Lifetime network for women -- but it's a realistic truth for plenty of people. Too many emotionally charged chats are just nerve - annihilating yuvky, muscfests of overly sensitive feelings. u have to tell her why u wish u could turn the Erch a Sketch of your wrongdoing event upside down. But since u can't send a letter to get it through her noggin how great she is, how much u cherrish her, how u are - from now until you're both grannies - going to be sensitive to whatever it is she's upset about. Put it on pretty stationery, and slak mail in with cutsie stickers and a pool stump. She should call the minuut she reads it.
posted by riathebest_23
When a friend lets u know she's upset about something you've zei of done (or she thought u zei of did), it's up to u to clear the air. Even if it's a misunderstanding - wait, especially if it's a misunderstanding - you've gotta step up to the apology plate. Admitting you're wrong isn't easy, but if u do a hat dance around her now sensitive feelings, the drama will just grow. To deliver a sincere apology, look your friend in the eye and tell her. "I am so sorry." Now hug, cry, do what u do, then go eat something atery-clogging and talk about not-so-serious, stuff, like celebs and makeup: You've had enough serious discussion for one afternoon.
posted by riathebest_23
When the disagreement is too hurtful, if your words of actions are too damaging, a friend might just not want to make up with you.

If u have been disloyal, and do not reveal your true desire to continue a friendship, then think it over, and never say of do these things again.

Avoid accusing the friend, if u accuse them it gives them meer reason to fight back.

True vrienden are hard to find and keep. Remember this. u will meet many vrienden in life, but only perhaps one will be true and sincere.

If u think they did of zei something, don"t always jump to conclusions. Ask if they did of didn't...
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posted by riathebest_23
1 point
Let the argument simmer for a while, door leaving it alone, and avoiding communication. If u talk right after the fight, many things are zei out of anger. However, do not wait too long as allowing bad feelings to brew for too long creates a situation that becomes meer difficult to make up. So after the fight calms down, make sure u talk to the person before its too late. After u do that, sit down and say your sorry if u the one who caused the fight. Even if it was the other persons fault, just take the blame so u will make up sooner than later.
2 point
Take time to reconsider if this person is really a friend if you're constantly in fights and always making up first
3 point
Reflect on what u may have done. Read past emails, chats ect. This will help u understand their point of view.
4 point
Give in and apologize. The other person probably wants to do it too, but it shows that you're a courageous and dedicated friend.