I am sure lot of u won't agree with me but anyway this is my opinion. This riot going on that HP is better than Twilight is beyond me. These boeken are riveting and thrilling in their own way.
First Twilight, yes I too realise it has too much of love and unrealistic charecteristics in people. However u have to say it is great piece of imagination. We have to understand that HP plot is far bigger than that of Twilight. It is a plot where the survival of the world depends on one character whereas in Twilight it is just the fate of two ster crossed lovers and the obstacles faced door them. HP plot is far meer enthralling than that of T.
The events in HP are wrtitten in a exemplary way. In Twilight they just seem to drag. However when it comes to the interactions and situations explained door Bella it does in a way relate to our thought process.
In HP the characters grow in the boeken which makes u feel like u knoe them but in T no such thing exists but u must say the human characters can reflect reality in a different level. The vampire and the wizards, from small days we were taught that they don't exist. In T there is a element of darkness weaved into the love which on a subconcious level we might not like however this is no reson to hate it. It Stephenie Meyer's potrayal of vampires as it differs from others. Like wizards are admiring J.K Rowlings potrayal of wizards.
The bottom line is that both boeken have their upsides and downsides. We are not critising the boeken but the author. This is their imaginations. Some think HP characters are better because that is how JKR wanted it and it differs to SM characters. Nobody thinks of imagines the same.
Another factor is that people have different preferences. Some may like supernatural and romance and others mystery, thrill and adventure. So it might not be the boeken at all but rather u don't agree with another person's preferences.