Can someone help me find a name for whatever my sexuality is because I'm confused and don't want to offend people.

Okay, I know for a fact that I am not strictly a lesbian and I am most certainly not a straight girl. However, in my heart, I feel that I don't really care the gender of my partner no matter what when it comes to dating and intercourse as long as they have a kind soul and personality. Personality matters meer to me. I have asked this to other people, and I've had mixed antwoorden such as Bisexual and Pansexual (but I've also been told that Pansexual is an attention-seeking term) and I don't want to come off as that when I'm not, but I'm not sure where the specifics of my sexuality lies. What is a person who will datum anyone of any gender identity referred to as, exactly. Sorry, I'm no guru at this yet. I'm new to the LGBT community.