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Okay so I got with my boyfriend like 3 weeks geleden and it seems like he's losing interest already.
When I first got with him he'd be begging to spend some time with me after college and this past week it hasn't been like that at all.
He hasn't been asking me to come over to his place and he's been going to his friends. Do u think he still likes me? of is this a sign he's losing interest in me?
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IDK U SHOULD ASK HIM ABOUT WHAT`S GOING ON & I WISH THE LUCK 4 U
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littlelemon said:
Hmmm, this is a tricky one. Somehow I don't think a guy can be all over someone one minute, then get bored of them the next. I honestly couldn't say if he still likes u of not, because I don't know the whole situation, but I would recommend talking to him about it. It might not be that he's bored of you, maybe there's just something going on at home pagina of with vrienden of something and he just feels that he needs to it out. of perhaps he's just not sure how u feel about him and doesn't want to push his luck with you. Whatever it is, the best way is just to be there for him, and encourage him, of reassure him of how u feel if that's what he needs. If it turns out that he is bored of you, then that isn't your problem, so don't stress about it. Just go find another guy who'll love u forever, not just 3 weeks. Good Luck!
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Actually I confronted him about it today when I went out with him before and he told me he still loves me and stuff but I feel like he doesn't, maybe I'm just insecure.
RnBStar13 posted een jaar geleden
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I think that's just a part of the whole going-out thing. u tend to feel like he/she doesn't reallu love u at the beginning of a relationship. Just give it time, if u have a long lasting relationship, you'll start to have meer faith in him.
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I hope so, I really like him but my parents say he's not worth it and I can do better
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Karthigesh said:
Well, as a guy, I can tell u for a fact that something might be bothering him that he isn't sharing with you. He could be afraid of insecure about something, which he finds hard maybe, to share with you. Try and speak to him and open up some stuff about yourself to him as well, once he is comfortable, he would open up slowly to u as well, that way he would be able to find comfort in u with regards to whatever is bothering him.

Then go on to explain that no matter how hard things are, as long as u and him have each other, u can always overcome it together. I doubt that he doesn't love you, I'm sure he does, but I sense that something is preventing him from giving u his all...
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My parents think he's not worth it. We was supposed to be going out with each other today and he sent me a message saying "I feel sick, I can't come out" I think he's just making up excuses to not see me now :'( and he was 40 minuten late when I was waiting for him yesterday. He rung me up saying "I'll be there in a minute" 40 minuten later he finally came. I was waiting out in the freezing cold for him for 40 minutes.
RnBStar13 posted een jaar geleden
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What matters is you, dear :) I suggest u call him up and tell him straight out, and ask what is wrong with him and why he is behaving this way. Tell him your hart-, hart isn't something that he can take for granted, u chose him and he should feel lucky because u are with him. I hope he is honest with you, because if he isn't then he is truly hurting you. u need to find the answer as to why he is like this from him like right now because the longer it drags on, u will be one left hurt. I still stand door what I zei and that is that something is bothering him and he is afraid to open up to you.
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