If they told u things they never meant of when they promise u things they never do, and when they make u confused about almost everything, and make u stuck with their lies. Follow your heart, your feelings, you'll know better. door asking this vraag i know you're not sure and having doubts, so from the beginning don't get your self into things u know of even doubt they will hurt u of cause u any harm. it's only my opinion and i could be wrong. but no matter what just follow your heart. hope i could help...
When they 'drop hints' about something they want u to do/give/etc to them, and u do precisely as they hinted, then they say (usually 'most innocently') "But why did u think I wanted that?" Someone who lead u up the proverbial garden path like this is NOT WORTH IT.
Also: When they savage something about you, THEN PRAISE PRECISELY THAT THING IN SOMEONE ELSE. Do not endure double standards. Someone who indulges in DOUBLE STANDARDS is NOT WORTH IT.