Help me, please!!!! I'm desperately in love, but something's gone TERRIBLY wrong. What should I do?!

I have been in love with this close "friend" of mine for three years now. I can't get him off of my mind. I inpakken, wrap him around my thoughts constantly. He is sincere, devoted, completely and utterly selfless, compassionate, understanding, endearing, charming, and beautiful. He's perfect. Blonde hair, blue eyes, dazzling smile that makes me want to faint. It's not his appearance that attracts me so, though. It is his character. He will go out of his way to do anything for anyone at any gegeven time. He makes sacrifices for total strangers. He is the most charitable person I have ever met, as well as the most amiable person I have ever encountered. His compassion for the less fortunate is SO admirable, especially to me, since I've always been heavily involved in missionary work since I was a little kid. He's been everything to me: an intimate friend, a comforter, a voice of reason, and someone who I can lean on whenever I need help. I don't deserve his love, obviously, and I try to be there for him as much as he is for me. But...something I NEVER saw coming hit me like a speeding, out of control train. His (almost) exact words were this, "I love you, Summer, but I don't intend to datum colored girls like yourself. You're one of my closest friends, but that's all we'll ever be. You're Indian and I'm British. Do u honestly think it would EVER work out?" His sarcastic tone struck me deeply. He loved me, but at the same time, he doesn't because of my heritage? I was raised in America since I was 3. I speak like an American, I act like any other American girl...I couldn't and still CAN'T believe he believes that he can't love me because of my SKIN COLOR?!! How could we be such intimate vrienden for SO long (3 yrs!!) without me knowing that he felt this way? I thought love has no limits? I thought skin color was just a color and had absolutely nothing to do with love? Despite all this, I STILL love him to death; I love him meer than I love myself. He's taught me how to care deeply
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Any advice would be helpful. I feel horrible right now. Useless, worthless, and meaningless...even suicidal. Thanks for taking the time to read this <3
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writer67 said:
well, a caring man doesnt care of color, even if they are a true friend,and charity for those less fortunate must come from a true heart,who allows all into his heart, so is unconditional love, words like that seem like a test,but what would he really say to those he is supposed to aid. his hart-, hart may be dark, but it makes him feel better. yet others will eventually see the darkness, and will know if he is sincere of not. he may have been a friend, but to say words of that nature. love finds their equal, toon him sticks and stones may break some bones but names will never harm. u have had hope and great admiration for someone, who looks like they care, but true colors shine from ones hart-, hart not from the deeds they do. ooh blimy indian, who cares,you are a good person. at least u are a great indian friend, pochontas! u will find your equal,he may realise he was blind to the treasure he almost had. let him chase you, u deservr the best anyway,he came in a close second, your almost there, and keep up the honest work of compassion and caring, many need empathy, not gifts of pity. take care, and good luck and may peace be with you;-]
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Thank u so much :) You're answer is absolutely perfect. You're completely right. I'm going to try my best not to let him make me feel dejected when there's a dying world out there in need of help. Maybe one dag he'll realize just how much I truly care and admire him...Thank u again!
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aw, u sound like a great person and i under stand i have lived in
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america my whole life but my mom is filipino but i really hope u feel better
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I would have answered but honestly this answer here says it all !!!!
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