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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my love for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other dag i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother zei " No meer mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted een jaar geleden
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with u there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps u going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for u in physical form. MJ's there for u in spiritual form. But your family will be door your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that u truly love him, but don't let that blind u from the people that will be there with u at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted een jaar geleden 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted een jaar geleden
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lol thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ fans of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a fan of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a fan of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your love for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted fan and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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thanks that really touches my hart-, hart
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I love my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my love for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that u couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy u one if I knew u :)
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awww i would buy u one too
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zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw of know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to love MJ...

But loving him meer than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

u did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe u should talk to a psychiatrist to see why u feel this way.
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted een jaar geleden
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is meer than one shrink out there. u just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other fans of Michael, I know they have connections to him door his muziek and his love. But u do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, u should never love anyone meer than your family. Especially someone u never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I love Michael, I truly do. u don't have to get every single thing related to him to toon how much u love him. It's about love, not obsession of material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to toon your love.

Please get help and try spending meer time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even meer sick to see how many fans are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so u all approve of loving someone u never even knew meer than your family? Oh whatever.
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted een jaar geleden
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted een jaar geleden
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And u think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but u really think he would've picked a random fan to be there for?
AimieDawn posted een jaar geleden
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^ Bit harsh...
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