May someone help me to feel better? I'm really upset. :(

So my mother and I went to the graveyard a while geleden today. We took the dead flowers off of my grandfather's grave. He died just several days ago. July 20th. And tears started pouring down my face. I couldn't stop them! And I zei some things to God that I shouldn't have said. And I feel SO bad! That made me feel worse!

May someone help me feel better? I feel so terrible right now! :(

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Shadowmarioking said:
Death is a natural occurrence in life that cannot be prevented. It is the natural cycle for humans to die. One should not sulk over the death of a loved one, but instead try to remember times of joy and happiness that the deceased brought to them and to others. As for the God thing, I can't help u there since I'm atheist, but I'm sure he'll forgive you...I guess.
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I know it's natural, but it still hurts.
AllynessaClaire posted een jaar geleden
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Death is going to hurt, that's why it's important to look at all the things the deceased did; all of their achievements, be it small of little, and to be thankful they were a part of your life.
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Animeanimal said:
Just remember that god knows that u were upset at the time....he will forgive if u ask. And about your grandfather.....everything is going to be alright and I am sorry for your loss, but the Lord wanted him home pagina and he is not suffering any more......you should be happy for him and its okay to feel sad for him too. Instead of dwelling on the past live your life knowing that one dag u will kom bij him in u eternal home pagina and that will verplaats u forward. Also u could ask God to let him know how u are feeling and whats been going on in your life.....hope that helped ^^ Love u and i am always here...
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That's sweet! Thank u so much! u seem like a very understanding person.(: ♥
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well, thank u X3
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KittyKatTitan said:
Aww, Don't feel sad! Your grandfather's in a better place now, and God will forgive u for whatever u said. Just pray for forgiveness and u will be forgiven. I understand how u feel though, my grandmother just recently died, and I've been pretty upset about it. But, I'm okay now though, because my vrienden and family helped me get through it. I pray that God blesses u and your family through this tough time, and I hope u get to feeling better.
Your friend,
~Kat~
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u are so sweet.(: ♥
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Cherry9090 said:
This may help it may not I'm sorry if dosent

My mom died giving birth to me I have been blamed all my life I do not believe in god and I have cursed him alot I do not feel bad because my mom was innocent and he took her my fault of not

But u believe in him so I'll say this Hun don't worry he forgives u Hun ok no worries

And I joined the club
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I'm so sorry. It's not your fault. And thanks much for joining.
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Yes it is I never should have been born and most welcome
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I'm so sorry Cherry. It's not your fault, and nobody has the right to say that it is! u couldn't help of prevent that. I know u don't believe in God, but I'm saying this anyway. I know it may seem like God took her for no reason, but he did have one. We may not know his reason, but he did have one. It was her time to go in his eyes. I know this probably isn't helping you, but I just wanted to let u know, that it's not your fault and u can't be blamed for that! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I know sorry doesn't help, but I felt I needed to say it. I hope u have a great life and I pray that everything goes well for you! Love, ~Kat~
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Kat is right. I totally agree with her. I couldn't have zei it better.
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danfan1 said:
I don't know if this will help u of not but my grandmother died a few years geleden so when i am upset of depressed about something and i am crying all i do is remember the good times and funny things she used to say. Which helps. Sorry for your loss.
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When I remember those, it makes me sadder. :/
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aww
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