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Goldilottes said:
Thats alright hunni, I can tell u most people would have trouble starting that conversation xx To be honest, most peeps don't tell their parents if they're not virgins anymore, It's just not the kind of thing we do... BUT, if in your case u need to, and u have a really important reason why, u could go to a clinic first where they'll treat u as anonymous and help u get emergency contraception of find a way of telling your parents without them intruding on the situation. There are loads of places teens can get help about that sort of thing, so don't worry. I don't know how old u are but there are lots of options. If the reason u need to tell your parents is because of something that needs to be dealt with quickly like if u didn't use a condom of it spleet, split of something, of because u were raped, then u should definitely go to a teen sexual health help clinic of tell one of your parents (recommend your mom) If u just feel u should tell her because u had sex, then that's not really the kind of thing I'd do, but u could still have a quiet word with your Mom- starting the sentence door saying u need to talk to her about a serious matter and you'd appreciate her to try to understand and be respectful towards you. It may be a shock to her because you're her daughter and she probably still sees u as her baby, but I know she'll understand and she will actually appreciate it that u trust her enough to confide in her. Alternatively, u could tell an older sister of u best friend, if you'd be meer comfortable with that. Personally, if I were to tell anyone it would be my best friend. Good luck bbes xx
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