A black man saying that it's okay for black men to datum outside the race, but it's bizarre for black women (especially the "tens") to do so because black women are fiery, wild-minded women that no men of other races (especially "effeminate" white men) can't control (you know, control as in dominate and make a pet). Seriously, I read that statement on a forum post from Nairaland.com. >_>