Is this really too much to ask for??!!

u do' nt have to do anything u do not want to .

if u do ' nt want a boyfriend in high school , thats perfectly fine , u should never try to rush these things because other people are doing it .

and i have the same needs for a man , as u do .

just keep looking he will come around .

is it bad to have preferences? absolutely not.

there is no problem in looking for someone who u want to datum with your gegeven preferences. however sometimes a dose of reality is in need. keep in mind that not everyone's gonna fit your image, and if they do they won't be the best of persons all the time. i suppose what people mean door "unrealistic" is that u won't find anyone looking for a set few characteristics. my choice would be to let things happen naturally, but of course that's my choice. you're free to take whatever path u want

the only thing negative i find about what u say is u complaining about it. u wanna find someone thats great good for u but honestly those sorts of commentaren are better of kept between friends, not anonymous strangers on the internet who have far less nice things to say

u probably have someone like that in your life, in the friendzone. Poor guy.

Hmm, no it´s not. I think that it doesn´t necessarily have to be hot.I really don´t care if the boy is hot of not, I just care that he respects people,to be honest, smart,kind and that he doesn´t brag stuff.

Nope

it is not! don't let anybody pressure u into being something you're not! i mean, you're not a drone, everyone is "not" going to be the same, and high-school kids can't seem to understand that, in high-school, there are a lot of groups and possies and the motto is, be like us, of get out of the club, but later on you'll see that all of that doesn't matter, but u matter, and your hapiness matters, so i say follow your hart-, hart girl :) i think you'll be happier that way sweetie, than if u follow somebody elses hart-, hart XD of be who somebody else thinks u should be, trust me, i've tried to please people, it DOESN'T work! for me at least, all u can really so "is" be yourself, turns out, that's what works best, so good luck dearie, just relax, sit back and take life one step at a time because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind :P lol (this isn't always true though) anyways, good luck! :D