Can u DESPISE someone u once LOVED?WHY

Yeah, of course.

Because when a person u love lets u down, betrays u of does something unspeakable, it is a thousand times worse than if any old stranger did it because u trusted them. And when that trust is chucked back in your face, the worst kind of hatred is born. Emotional damage is some serious stuff :|

I don't per say despise them but I know I don't like who my ex became, it can happen when someone u love hurts you, emotionally of physically of both which both was the case with my ex, he was my first love & we were married for 23 years but after going through that it changes the way u feel about someone.

I think the word u are looking for is Marriage.

It depends meer on the individual situation.
I'm not one to believe that u can truly hate something of someone that u once truly loved and vice versa.
However, this is me and I have issues with attachment.


It most likely varies between people.

Yes definitely ,
Its just.... when some one u love betrays u ..... it ia just natural I guess

yes, when they lie to you, betray you, make a holocaust and kill 6 million innocent jewish ppl, u know that sort of thing.