My friend is a lot like that, he changes to fit the people he hangs out with. In middle school he moved away and whenever he came to visit it'd take like two days before he'd stop being moody and act like a real person. Now he's about to get married; which I think it the most retarded thing he's ever done (which is saying something). They never even lived together. Their entire relationship has been at home with their parents. think it's because he joined the Navy and if you want to live on base you have to be married. Whenever he gets a girlfriend he always treats me differently. All my friends and family say that the reason he’s mistreating me now is because his fiancé is jealous of me. I have a hard time believing that because there’s nothing to be jealous of. The only time I met her was at his birthday party, which he spent the whole time ignoring me. I was really pissed off because it was a really long drive to get there. The only reason I think they may be right is because I got there before his girlfriend did, and he was talking to me for like 15 minutes, and then she showed up and he stopped hanging out with me. But I didn’t see her say anything to him, so the whole thing just makes me really confused.
We'd never fought before recently, we've always gotten along. As he got older, he turned into a really laid back person. I was shocked when he started accusing me of mistreating him. We got into a really big fight over it and stopped speaking, then it kind of cooled off at Christmas time. But recently, he told me I could come to the wedding only if I didn't do certain things; stuff I've never even done. Like I can't interrupt people when they're talking. Or I can't hang out with him that much because he has to talk to everyone not just me. I'm a very polite person. That was the number one rule in my family. His list basically made realize he didn't want me there, he just felt obliged to invite me. Sorry for the long post, but I just really needed to rant. Also, I feel like you guys could give me unbiased advice on it.
We'd never fought before recently, we've always gotten along. As he got older, he turned into a really laid back person. I was shocked when he started accusing me of mistreating him. We got into a really big fight over it and stopped speaking, then it kind of cooled off at Christmas time. But recently, he told me I could come to the wedding only if I didn't do certain things; stuff I've never even done. Like I can't interrupt people when they're talking. Or I can't hang out with him that much because he has to talk to everyone not just me. I'm a very polite person. That was the number one rule in my family. His list basically made realize he didn't want me there, he just felt obliged to invite me. Sorry for the long post, but I just really needed to rant. Also, I feel like you guys could give me unbiased advice on it.