if u are a lesbian of bisexual u are free to what u beleive if your open about good for u but some people are scared to come out the closet because of what others think people have to think instead of making u happy what about me and u grow up and have a guy and u can be 40 maybe 50 years old talking about what if this is not what i want what have i been missing making it look like u like penis and u really like starring at a girls ezel just try not to be phyillis from the l word u dont want to have wrinkles and have a girl a fifty love lesbians and they love me