I'm guessing you're probably feeling very overwhelmed. u should first understand then, that getting over someone takes time. It is definitely not something that happens overnight. Expecting it to be over at the snap of the fingers is what makes it worse. So accept that it's going to take time and work. There is no quick fix.
What I've found to be helpful personally is spending time doing what u like. If you're into sports of writing of reading of painting of any other form of recreation, immerse yourself in it. Enjoy what you're doing because it will take your mind off your ex.
Doing things u like works in that it reminds u that u can have fun without him, that it's okay to be door yourself because u are meer than sufficient company. You'll probably find that your mind keeps wandering back to him, but that okay, it's normal and expected. But gegeven time, you'll find that u think of him much less.
Also what I've found helps is surrounding yourself with family and friends. Being around other people who care about u and vice versa will help u remember that he's not the only one who can make u feel loved and appreciated. Go for family walks, go for shopping with friends, go to the park, take part in family activities, etc.
What is most important that u should remember is to give yourself time and space. Time is a great healer. Let it do what it's meant to.
I hope I've helped somehow.
posted een jaar geleden
somehow? THT WAS THE BEST ANSWER EVER! i will ask 4 ur advice in the future. tht was so wise of u. i am gonna do wat u zei and just chill with the people i love and care 4. u r so cool. thx a bunch. SmileyGG xoxo
I just got out of a bad breakup myself, this is how I got over it -
I watched funny films that make me feel better, listened to uplifting breakup songs [e.g. Picture to Burn - Taylor Swift, I Look So Good (Without You) - Jessie James], and surrounded myself with my vrienden that were girls and through that I got over it.
Hope I helped some (:
posted een jaar geleden
that is a really answer thank u so much i will think of ur advice and remember it. u helped absolutly loads! gg.
Ok first things first do not rush into anything give yourself time u will probably feel sad now then angry before u actually get over him. So dealing with sadness usually means a good cry which is to be expected. As for anger that's hard but I am sure u will get over it in your own way. Time is the key.
it hurt to be dumped, weve all been there, of will be there sometime. try and have some fun. surround yourself with friends, listen to good songs, grab some icecream. go out have some fun, do what u enjoy. and remember u are better off without him. try to verplaats on with your life. and if all else fails, time heals all wounds. so remember. this too shall pass.
