When can I stop being self-conscious about my black hair?

Ok--everyone would not prefer blue eyes and blonde hair! But I know it feels that way sometimes. I don't know your ethnic background, but I come from a long line of Mediterranean/Middle Eastern/Asian stock, and there aren't too many blondes among us, and we're a pretty attractive lot!

Become familiar with the non-blonde celebs out there. I know that sounds superficial, but they're the ones whose faces are everywhere. Latina magazine, Essence, Ebony--these are also good places that reflect the wide world of dark hair/dark eye/dark complexion beauty.

It's not easy to change your viewpoint over night, but start embracing what is special about you. For example, I bet your black hair has a glossiness that no blonde can attain.

And I too hate the stereotype that mean people have dark hair. We know it's not true.

u can stop thinking about your black hair right now! Don't compare yourself to anyone else - u are unique, as we all are. Focus on what u are on the inside - believe me, THAT is what's most important!

Um NOW! u have black hair? u are so lucky! Give it to me!

I am a blue eyed blonde, I wish I had black hair! Black hair is glossy and awesome, I am always a fan of black haired characters in films and I never like the blonde characters. Sometimes I hate how I look!