what do u do when u have a broken heart?

my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and im so sad :(
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ilovekud said:
wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal door relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.
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yea okay thanks
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sapherequeen said:
Write. It always helps. Trust me =)
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rayray36 said:
Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that...
also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom of some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with vrienden but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes meer pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur hart-, hart out 2 them and then they tell every1...


Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.

Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that u can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.

Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would u give to your friend?

Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do u believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?

Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how u feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.

Step 6
If u feel u need to know why he cheated on u to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean u condone, agree with of accept his behavior.

Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology of promises never to cheat on u again. Be realistic. Do u honestly believe this was a one-time event, of do your instincts tell u that he'll probably cheat on u again in the future?

Step 8
Ask yourself if u would be better off with him of without him. Can u continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?

Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.

Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether u stay with him of not, forgive him for his actions so u can heal and verplaats on with your life.


Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com link

small quotes from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their hart-, hart once again

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the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-

srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD

*Wishes u good luck*
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 Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that... also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom of some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with vrienden but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes meer pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur hart-, hart out 2 them and then they tell every1... Step 1 Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal. Step 2 Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that u can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own. Step 3 Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would u give to your friend? Step 4 Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do u believe he won't repeat his actions in the future? Step 5 Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how u feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship. Step 6 If u feel u need to know why he cheated on u to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean u condone, agree with of accept his behavior. Step 7 Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology of promises never to cheat on u again. Be realistic. Do u honestly believe this was a one-time event, of do your instincts tell u that he'll probably cheat on u again in the future? Step 8 Ask yourself if u would be better off with him of without him. Can u continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal? Step 9 Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger. Step 10 Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether u stay with him of not, forgive him for his actions so u can heal and verplaats on with your life. Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_9817_handle-cheating-boyfriend.html#ixzz0vVJxTTs6 small quotes from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their hart-, hart once again http://weirdgrl12.glogster.com/healthy-recovery/ the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.- srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD *Wishes u good luck*
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I agree
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Funnygirl77 said:
awwwwwwww i'm sorry, I just deal with it but that's just me. I would tell u to talk with some of your friends. Theyll be able to help sorry aging
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yea but right now it just feels that i cant stop cryin
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aww i hope u fill better :D
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yea okay i guess it will take time
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Duncan-superfan said:
I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have advice for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.
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thanks that helps some
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No problem.
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GaGaBoi said:
That's what my friend Mr. Smirnoff is for. (:
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:)
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Spi_Kat_Penguin said:
I'm sorry about your boyfriend, If he cheated on u hes a crazy-poopoo head:) 4 you, just let it all out!!! Cry 4 a little bit, then beat him up a pic of him later!!! (Even him if u want!!!)

-Spi
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okay lol ill try that
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fun123fun said:
eat alot of sweets and wach your fav show
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yea that helps forget
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JBfan516 said:
What i do is i just spend some alone time but i also spend time with my family and friends. Try to balance it
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okay balance is the key to happiness right
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LunaShay said:
Awww im so sorry!!!!!!If u have a picture of him and a dartboard,put his face on it and aim for the nose :).Also,get some sugar and watch tv,that always helps,or take a nap(what i do XD).
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Snugglebum said:
u shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a mes to my wrist and i dont want u doing the same to yourself!If u feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!
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y not i thought about it before
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trust me, i have a reputation at home pagina now because of it, it makes it worse!
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skaterwildz said:
Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great u were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that u liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my vrienden and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)
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ok thanks
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Jeffersonian said:
I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous auteur as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if u make up a story like that it will make u feel better.
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lol yea totally helps
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Kadaj said:
I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think u should verplaats on - that's what I did when I came back from Halloween break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some vrienden about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.


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thanks
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rose12345 said:
awww i'm sorry. The best thing i can tell u is surround yourself door your friends, listen to muziek relate to it and in a couple of weeks u might get over it.
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taismo723 said:
What do I do? I fix it with tape. Why?
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Matsy23 said:
awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your vrienden about it, of talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and u could also watch some tv to help forget about him
um....thats really all the advice i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend
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invaderlin123 said:
i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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 i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P
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LadyL68 said:
I'm so sorry :(
The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to verplaats on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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 I'm so sorry :( The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to verplaats on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)
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sorry the pic is so small i didn't mean 4 it 2 do that lol
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Tayloraddict-1 said:
Well i eat ALOT but dont do dat it can make u fat but im not fat i stopped b4 that happened
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HNismyfriend said:
look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater door Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff of getting eaten door sharks of getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me
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Monrose said:
Go to the ER of die.
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xshams said:
I try to do something mean to him.
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nikki5516 said:
I very so to hear that I hope u feel better.

When I have a broken hart-, hart I will listen to sad muziek and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone door my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier muziek and sing along I will also talk to my vrienden to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD
some people say that chocolate helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat chocolate and ice cream and watch tv of listen to music...lol

like I zei I hope u feel better <3
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