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also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom of some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with vrienden but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes meer pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur hart-, hart out 2 them and then they tell every1...
Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that u can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would u give to your friend?
Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do u believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?
Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how u feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
Step 6
If u feel u need to know why he cheated on u to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean u condone, agree with of accept his behavior.
Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology of promises never to cheat on u again. Be realistic. Do u honestly believe this was a one-time event, of do your instincts tell u that he'll probably cheat on u again in the future?
Step 8
Ask yourself if u would be better off with him of without him. Can u continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether u stay with him of not, forgive him for his actions so u can heal and verplaats on with your life.
Read more: How to Handle a Cheating Boyfriend | eHow.com
link small quotes from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their hart-, hart once again
link the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-
srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD
*Wishes u good luck*