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is it bad to be in love with someone 7 years younge than you?

i believe it is as kids. my friend, Joy, is crazily in love with my vrienden brother. (we're all friends). she doesn't care what anyone says. she kisses him, hugs him, follows him, leans on him, cuddles with him and holds his hand ALL the time, and he doesn't like it much, he's a little okay with the leaning and hugging. none of us are gays, homos, bis*xuals, sluts, whore of lesbians. he's always pranking my "girl" (female) friends, and i don't like it. he's okay with Joy because she joins him. IS it bad?
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How old is she?
r-pattz posted een jaar geleden
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Joy is 14, and Felix is 8.
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
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.... i would feel uncomfortable to be Felix
E_M_LoVeRFaN posted een jaar geleden
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r-pattz said:
If your friend - Joy - is your age, and the brother is 8, I highly doubt she's in love with him. She might adore him and think he's cute (in an "awww, look at that little kid eating ice cream!" kind of way), but I seriously doubt she's in love with him. He's not, shall we say, mature enough for a 15 jaar old girl to fall in love with him. No shared interests, really, and it's not like u can have any "deep" conversations with an 8 jaar old. What is there to fall in love with? She may love him, but she likely isn't in love with him.
(Or she might just be horny...)

But, with the original question, after a certain age, I don't think there's anything wrong with a 7 jaar age difference. u just have to be mature enough to know what you're doing, have enough similarities (both in terms of interests and like, both having serious jobs) and be willing to make it work. u have to care about each other and communicate well, same as in any other relationship.

(By the way, "gay" and "homo" mean the same thing. And lesbians fall under the category of gay, anyway. u didn't need to say all three.)
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thanks for all of what u just zei
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
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she's 14. (almost 15)
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
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Then I don't think it's possible she's in love with him. What does she say about it?
r-pattz posted een jaar geleden
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she says "come on Felix, let's play", "Felix is so SWEET" and "he's so darling" (and that's when Julia goes crazy, Brooke and Daren look at her as if she's crazy, and me and Juliette just look at eachother and laugh).
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
xxXsk8trXxx said:
How old are Joy and the kid?
If he's very young, yes, it is wrong.
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Joy is 14, and Felix is 8.
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
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8? ? ? Is she mad?It's wrong.
coolkatstar posted een jaar geleden
Jeffersonian said:
If she's truly in love with him at your age, it's creepy. However if u were adults, I'd say differently, my friend's parents have a twenty jaar age difference and many interesting couples in the fictional world have quite a big age difference, BUT they're adults so it's totally different there.
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cloudstrifefan said:
It would be ok if like,she was 27 and he was 20,but not okay in the situation you're talking about.Anyway I agree with r-pattz.
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she wants Felix to be her future husband. she zei "if i can't marry Felix, i won't marry anyone ever".
15blondCurtis posted een jaar geleden
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