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Guysss..!! really i need help... i love this guy so much i cant get over him but he's my ex already, it's been like almost 4 years and we've been together for 2 years and we broke up already but i cant forget about him though i tried everything... i mean whenever i think i forgot about him already and i dont think about him anymore.. he jjust goes to my dreams and ruin everything..ughh..i really need advice on what to do
 beljay posted een jaar geleden
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BabyBlud said:
I disagree with above, 15 isn't too young for love. Too young for sex in my opinion, but not love.

u say u had a long relationship with him already, but u broke up? Think about what made u break up the first time and see the pros and cons in the relationship. Find out what went wrong and see if u can find a remedy for that u can work on this time.

If u want him back - just say so. Tell him your feelings and that u hope he feels the same way, take it from there.

If u don't want him back - i suggest finding something else to occupy your mind. u may be dreaming about him for several reasons - 1. he was your first love, and therefore u have nothing to compare with, so every time u dream of being 'in love' etc, u dream of him 2. It could be though u don't want him back u still have certain feelings for him which u will have to work out and remedy of 3. though u may not want him u may still have a strong liking of him.

I suggest working out what u want, taking a breather and a think and working from there. Just talk to him, get it out in the open, but try to remain vrienden no matter what the outcome.
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Aww..thanks for the advice..imma go to number one ..he is indeed my first in everything and though he is my ex, we r kinda close but he told me to wait but im not willing to coz we're still too young..ill find out soon and about me always dreaming about him, I got used to it, leaving in a dream with him..i mean I always dream about him for no reason, I do not love him like I I did before but maybe ur right, maybe there's still feelings that stays to my hart-, hart but I dont have the courage to tell him...im not scared, its just I feel like its wrong to love him anymore... I love him but idk..
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InvaderStickly said:
According to your account, you're 15. WAY too young to love.
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Hehe..i sure am.. :)) and I think im old enough to love
beljay posted een jaar geleden
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Sigh...
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springely said:
An hero.
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ripper124 said:
I'm a girl Shit! just think of it this way he is missing out on u in your love and in your dreams if he comes just ignore in go to a another thats what i did with my x
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im afraid I did that already but it ddnt work..i went away and still ddnt work..nahh..i dont know what to do volgende really..
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