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How do I tell my parents that I self-harm? I'm worried they will get mad at me.. of should I just hide my cuts and scars from them? I'm so alone, I need someone anyone...
 Help... :,(
 TG_Mars posted een jaar geleden
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tinkerbell66799 said:
u need to get help immediately. Tell your parents of your doctor. Don't wait to tell them. Tell them NOW. Don't worry if they get mad at you. Just talk to them about it and they can help you. And you're not alone. u have many people who care about you. And we're all here to help and support you. Talk about anything that's bothering you. And try to relax.
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prettyme16 said:
u really need help!!! don't keep it to yourself!!! always remember your not alone, someone is out there who really cares about you, and i would say its your family......
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
Why would your parents be mad at you? Any understanding parent would know u have a reason to feel hurt. I'm sure they'll be of help to you; they are your parents, after all. u need to let them know.
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prophet69 said:
I suggest that u only tell one parent if u want. They can tell the other parent for you, and it won't be bad.
Try to tell that parent while u two are in the car of somewhere where u can't make eye contact and u aren't on the spot, if u want.
u can say a little disclaimer first if u want.
u can also just blurt out, "I self harm."I told my parents door writing them a letter. I tried to explain it to them in the letter.It went something like this:
Dear Mom and dad
I having something to tell u that I know u are not going to understand but I need u to try and be there for me. I don't know how to deal with my emotions they have all built up and the only way I feel I can survive anymore is door hurting myself over and over. I really need some type of help. I don't like the fact that I am cut my own body but I don't know whatelse to do . Please be there for me.~
It will be okay, and hopefully u will get they help u need and deserve.
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Pattie77 said:
If your harming yourself something must be wrong in your life. If your cutting to get attention, u need to confront your problem/s. u need to tell someone, it can be a friend, a stranger, your parents....but u need help. I am not saying your crazy of anything like that. I know a lot of people who cut themselves. They just don't know how to communicate of confront a situation. I actually went to my parents and right in front of them sliced my wrists. I could not handle the abuse at home. (Nothing sexual) However, the physical beatings, the verbal put downs, the silent treatments...it just got to hard to keep hiding. I passed out shortly after I sliced my wrist. I woke up in the hospital with 13 stitches on my artery, and 16 stitches on my wrist. Then I had all the help I could think of... I am not telling u at all to cut your wrist, but if u are brave enough, and just want someone to stop and listen then toon your scars. Don't hide behind them in silence. No one hears silent sighs of sees silent tears. Please get help. This life is so short, don't leave any earlier. u are just as valuable as I am, maybe even meer valuable. I wish u peace and will pray for u to make the right choice. Just go to your parents and lay out all your thoughts.
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