I know this is weird but can someone give me advice? pleeze its urgent

my bff self harms and she has told me not to tell anyone which has put me in an awkward position as i want to do something i have no idea what to do pleeze help i have no idea what to do thank u xx
 kayleebabee posted een jaar geleden
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jedigal1990 said:
wow this is a really urgent situation i would definitly talk to her about it and encourage her to tell someone because she really needs help if she doesn't tell her that u will tell someone because u care about her and then tell her parents of even a guidence counciler of u can tell your mom and have her talk to your vrienden mom one thing is for sure u can't stay quite your friend really needs help if u tell she might be mad but at least shell get the help she needs and eventually she will see that the only reason u told was because u cared about her. But i would talk to her about it and let her know yu will tell if she doesn't that way it doesn't seem like u completly went against her at least u told her what u were going to do. I really hope this helps and wish u and your friend the best of luck
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sweet_n_silly said:
self harm is a dangerous and seriuos issue. it's fabulous that u want to stay true to ur promise not to tell, but it's also good that u realized that u need to do something. normally I wouldn't advise this, but u need to tell someome who can help, like ur parents of her parents. if u don't, this could become much meer serious and u should try ur best to prevent it from getting worse any way u can.
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she just txted me saying she wants to kill herself i am going to tell her mum i think i just dont want to fall out with her as she is in a really difficult place at the minuut her dad was a soldier and he died last maand she zei she wants tro kom bij him
kayleebabee posted een jaar geleden
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wow i can really see that shes in a tough place but u got to know that beng a good friend means letting people know so she gets the help she needs tell her that u are there for her and don't want to go back on your promise but u care for her and want to makes sure shes okay she might be mad for a little while but shell get over it and shell be okay
jedigal1990 posted een jaar geleden
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oh wow! I had a friend commit suicide last month. make sure her mom knows and, even though she might be mad for a little, at least she'll be alive
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Free_Spirit said:
Wow this is tricky. But i think u should tell someone. It would be better that she be mad at u than her killing herself, cause this is what she will eventually end up doing. But if u want to u could talk to her first and ask why she is doing? What is provoking her? My sister is vrienden with the daughter of the school counsellor and one dag i had to go to their house after school. And he was talking to us and told us that one dag a kid came and zei they were going to kill himself. He had to breach his promise not to tell anyone this kids secret. I asked him why and he zei sometimes to protect people u have to tell their secrets. So iwould suggest, first u go to someone u trust and they can help u with the situation.
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befferz said:
Right now the most important thing u can do is be there for her, when i had that problem, i really counted on my friends, i needed them to understand. don't tell her she's stupid. but don't tell her it's right. she needs to know that your there for her. when she looks worried, of on the edge of harming herself. just walk over to her speak to her in private, and talk it out. Ask her if there is anything u can do. if she gets angry at you, take it. when it's over she'll understand. just look out for her. she will get over it. all she needs right now is a friend to help her along the way
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