How do i braek up with a guy without hurtting him?

Well this really cute boy at school asked me out. Now its been 2 months and the relation ship has gone NO WEAR but i dont want to hurt him at all! HELP!!!!!
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lilacool said:
Dear jacobblack45,
u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH.
so heres wat u shouldn't say:
We'll still be friends.
See u around.
We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him)

It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either.
here are some things u should say:

We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc)
Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha?

And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying.
after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u.

I'm really sorry i cudnt help meer but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable...

Lots of love (hope i helped!!)
ur mate lilacool =)
p.s.that pic under there is a hart-, hart (DUH!!). it represents his hart-, hart now. his hart-, hart is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
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 Dear jacobblack45, u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH. so heres wat u shouldn't say: We'll still be friends. See u around. We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him) It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either. here are some things u should say: We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc) Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha? And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying. after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u. I'm really sorry i cudnt help meer but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable... Lots of love (hope i helped!!) ur mate lilacool =) p.s.that pic under there is a hart-, hart (DUH!!). it represents his hart-, hart now. his hart-, hart is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
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i'm not that helpful but i'm meer helpful than the others so far!!!=)
lilacool posted een jaar geleden
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thank u that was soooo helpful =D
jacobblack45 posted een jaar geleden
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ur welcome! lots of hugs! and u other ppl, see she liked my advice!! =)
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orangeturnip said:
if u hurt them , its the only way they can get over u unless they wasnt really into u in the first place!!!
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K5-HOWL said:
I have no idea T_T
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sapherequeen said:
Well, to be honest I don't think there will be a way that someone can break up with someone else without hurting them the least bit.

But what I would suggest u do is to be gentle, sweet, kind, and always put in that u would love to keep him as a close friend :)
Try to be very sympathetic with his feelings, and with doing this avoid doing of saying anything that u may think would hurt him...

Hope this helps....
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lol
orangeturnip posted een jaar geleden
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its up to u if u go for a softly softly approach but im telling u most guys dont get that
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agree with sapherequeen
lilacool posted een jaar geleden
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well yah that could work thxs
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amazingXmooses said:
if he really does like you, then it's going to hurt him. but he'll verplaats on.
that's all there is to it.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
There's no such thing as a guy who doesen't get hurt after a break up.
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true...but,she can try and be a bit gentle and supportive cos that helps him realise shes not reely a bad person!
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dont change my option P.P
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