Can u help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months geleden i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay vrienden w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
 catsrule465 posted een jaar geleden
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe u will. u have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, of else u will lose both of them. u have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry u hurt him. Be vrienden with him for a while, then ask him out when u think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if u truly like him.
3. Be just vrienden with both of them.
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but i want to be meer than vrienden for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best vrienden practicall?
catsrule465 posted een jaar geleden
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that u need to talk to Ron and appologise if u hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what u want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for u eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
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thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at u only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if u felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if u actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if u saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
catsrule465 posted een jaar geleden
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
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