I found this great tumblr and it's probably someones from this site lol. But I thought I'd share because whoever it is has been able to articulate my thoughts and feelings regarding aspect of Delena's scenes and storyline that I can't put into words.
These parts in particular stood out: Why Elena deserves Damon's love and care and vice versa.
He’s also been helping her find light and levity in a life that has precious little of it; Bloodlines, The Last Dance. Damon makes her feel alive whether it’s because he’s made her happy of made her sad of angry. She feels when she’s around him. And the beauty of it is, she’s the one who taught him that feelings and emotions are what give life meaning. I know there are moments when a lot of us wonder whether Elena “deserves” the care that Damon shows her. volgende time u find yourself wondering if Elena is “worthy” remember to look at her through his eyes and you’ll realize that everything he gives her is something he feels she’s gegeven him first. Damon is always looking out for the girl he can't have so why are people giving him hell?
I think a lot of people don’t realize of appreciate how constant Damon has actually been as a support to Elena. They focus on how he’s unstable and he loses the plot for a few seconden and snaps Jeremy’s neck of forces Elena to drink his blood. And yes those are horrible things. But when it came to helping her rescue Stefan, he was there. When it came to helping Stefan detox, he was there. Never forget that at the end of MMF, he stays down in the cellar for HER, not for Stefan. When Isobel blew into town the first time, he was the one who stood steady for her to lean on and she did. Stefan was still recovering from his detox and Elena turned to Damon to help her get through. When he found out about the tomb vampires on Founder’s Day, she was his first priority. Damon’s been taking care of her for longer than people realize. Damon the bad brother? I don't think so...
People honestly treat Damon as if he was the boyfriend; as if protecting and caring for Elena was truly his responsibility and when I say people, I include Elena in that. She zei exactly the same thing to Damon as John did, in The Sacrifice. “How could u let this happen?”
They don’t, any of them, ever want to admit it but they lean on Damon, depend on him, look to him. And I think – I hope – that now that they think he’s dying, they’ll appreciate that meer and that they’ll let him know it. My belief and hope for volgende week is that Damon is going to understand how much he matters to the people around him. It would be really good if it came out that he got bitten saving Caroline. I’d like to see a scene between those two.
Here's the link if you's would like to read more.
Just thought I'd share the bits I loved. link