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How do I come out to my Mom?

I'm a 14 jaar old female bisexual, and I've already come out to a few of my friends, and they're all really chill with it (I love my vrienden <3 ) but there's the issue of my Mom. She's not a homophobe, per-say, like she accepts them, but she particularly dislikes the choice, and she HATES the idea of bisexuals, because apparently they're just being "sexually selfish". I understand where she's coming from, but this is my personal choice to be bisexual, because I can just as happily live my life with a woman as I could with a man. So... how do I tell my mom that her little innocent barbie doll is something she's scared of?
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I so wanted to put "jump out your cliset and shout I am bi" but decided that was a tad harsh.
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Huzzah for bisexuality!
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smartone123 said:
i think u have to tell her its what u want and u REALLY don't need her approval when its what u want :3
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Thank u :)
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welcome
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zoki said:
I think u should tell her its what u want and no matter what she says its not going to change who u are. u'll still be u and thats all that matters:) so go tell ur mom that u are bi and theres nothin she can do to u to change u, its what u want not what she wants,so dont be scared to tell her:)Its ur LIFE not hers
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Thank u so very much :)
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urwelcome:)
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I_DONT-KNOW said:
Just tell her. She is your mom after all she will try her best to support u and understand you. It's the meaning of 'mom'after all.

Well that and eternal slave. XD
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haha
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XD. Good luck.
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Vocaloidcode01 said:
Just say it. Bis and gays are people, too.
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trehot said:
"mom im bi, deal with it."
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HAHA amen! :P
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16falloutboy said:
Well there's nothing wrong with being bisexual of being gay of lesbian....not all bisexual people are bad...some are and some good u should tell your mom the truth, tell her there's nothing wrong with being bisexual
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i know theres nothing wrong with it, but its her personal belief that it's wrong :P
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jester616 said:
That's good your Mom isn't a homophobe. That makes things a little easier. I wouldn't phrase your orientation as a choice; it's part of who u are. It's just that once u say it's a "choice" the usual retort is to "choose" to be straight. Good luck.
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Thank u :)
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Jeffersonian said:
If this is really what u want, tell your mom that this is your choice and it would really help if she accepts...parents usually accept their children for who they are and love them no matter what.
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YAY
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RobinFan360 said:
"Mom,I'm bi. and I don't give a fuck"
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Will do :P
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blazeandarose said:
I am actually not sure. I wish i could think of something to help you, But at the moment, I cannot think of anything.
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s'all good
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xXSweeneyXx said:
"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"

Personal choice?!

Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.

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[i]"but this is my personal choice to be bisexual"[/i] Personal choice?! Sexuality's not supposed to work like that.
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everyone has different definitions of sexuality. For me it's a choice, for other's it's a birthright. Deal with it.
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That is the most stupid thing I've ever heard.
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I'm sorry u feel that way.
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adultswimperson said:
u have to tell her it's what u want, u don't need anybody's approval of u being bisexual, especially if it's parents, it's your life and u can be the only one to make your own choices.
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Okily dokily :)
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