firstly, welcome to fanpop! that's how it works. 1Add someone 2Give a compliment and say "hi i've added you!" 3this user will add you( he/she'll peobably give a compliment back) in here, no one adds u if u ask for it.
I was actually going to earlier, but I have a strict rule of having to have 5 clubs in common with someone before I fan them. Sometimes I break the rule if people aren't in very many clubs in general, but even then we have to have at least one in common. And since u haven't joined any clubs... I can't add you.