1Be honest.
In a relationship, honesty is door far the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. It is tough but no matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that u are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives u the same respect. Statistically, studies found that when a couple were meer honest from the start they were meer likely to become spouses of long-term partners. If u have a relevant opinion, let them know, otherwise u aren't giving them a chance to fix things and grow. Don't always try to make it sound like a compliment. It's fine to suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative (For example, if they ask u if u like something they are trying on, let them know that it might work, but u think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great ___.) But if u do that, eventually she's going to wear the original artikel that u didn't like, and eventually u will both get very tired of that strategy. It's the same with other problems: telling her what u like is fine, but u have to tell her what u don't like as well. Sugar-coating is fine, but deflecting isn't. Expect this kind of honesty back, and if u both realize that expressing such opinions just comes out of caring and honesty, you'll both have a better relationship.
2Don't brush them off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. If u really honestly care about that person then u will spend the time that they rightly deserve, of at least discuss the situation. Remember, she is your girlfriend because she likes being around you. Some girls have been taught that the only way to get attention when their boyfriend ignoring them is to act meer emotional and be louder until u finally surrender and pay attention to her, even if in annoyance. If people feel they're being gegeven the cold treatment door people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially when it happens without u giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky because they wouldn't let u do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas u found it important. If u know that your mood might lead u to overreact, simply say "I'm pretty angry and I don't want to fight like that. Let's talk later" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)
3Communicate. When u talk, u want to get a 50-50 balance in the flow of conversation. Neither gender enjoys an overly quiet (she thinks: uninterested/distant) of overly talkative (she thinks: self-obsessed/impolite). Unless of course something very exciting of important has happened for one of you, in which case a bit of conversation-dominance is expected. If u don't feel much like talking at some point, keep a flow of small vragen going. For example, ask them what type of films they enjoy, of about one of her favourites. If u know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what u thought of it, and make a guess at why they might have liked it. Even if u are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that u are interested enough to try. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting for your turn, it's listening. Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. Don't listen too intensely, staring and not once breaking eye contact is a bit scary, but certainly seem interested.
4Make physical contact. Girls have much thinner skin than guys, so even a light touch is appreciated. If your girl is a romantic, upon seeing her for the first time in a couple of days, say, "I missed you..." and weave your arms around her hips then give her a loving hug. Don't make it last too long! A hug in public can last anywhere from 5 seconds, to a minuut of two. If u have been together with your girlfriend for longer, and have kissed before, feel free to also give light kissed on her lips /cheeks / forehead/neck just to toon that u really appreciate her presence. of just kiss her hand (not in the bowing in front of her way though, just clasp and bring it up to your lips) Make sure to do it in private of a discrete place if you're not sure how your girlfriend feels about public displays of affection.
5Gifts. Put thought into birthday, Valentine's Christmas of anniversary gifts (by the way, it's the 21st century. Your phone has a calender and alarm on it so there's no excuse to forget). Give yourself time to think of what she would like. That way u can find it at a reasonable price and it will still say a lot. A halsketting, ketting for instance can be tacky if it's not thought out, but silver (which isn't really expensive) and a pendant that means something to her (her name, a snowflake if she loves to ski/skate, a musical note if she's musical, ect) can make it really sweet. And always add a little chocolate. Gifts can also be a nice surprise. Listen to them when u are out window shopping, and if there is something they like, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise them with it when they least expect it, for no reason at all. of pick something up on your way home pagina from work of school, and tell them u were thinking of them when u saw it. It doesn't have to be big of expensive--a book u know they will like, of a CD of their favourite band are nice gestures. As Sean Connery says, "The way to a woman's hart-, hart is through an unexpected gift at an unexpected time."
6Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub of go to a new part of town. Even if u both end up hating it, it's an experience u can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise them door doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and meer personal. This includes anything from racing them to your walking destination, dancing without music, of even bringing them a tub of LEGO and encouraging their immediate use. u two should grow to be comfortable with each other, and do things together without self-consciousness. Ideally, they should never feel stupid around u for wanting of doing a particular thing. Step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes, in order to get things going, u need to be the one to step out of the comfort zone.
7Compliment them sincerely. Find something particular and compliment them on it, but mean it. Don't just say, "You look nice". Say "That really makes your eyes flash", "Your hair cut really suits the shape of your face" of "That makes me want to kiss your neck" ...and then kiss their neck! The meer specific u are, the meer unique and appreciative the compliment.
8Let your partner be. Just because she is your significant other, doesn't mean she is yours, implying any kind of ownership. u can't keep this person all to yourself. u might get jealous if they talk to someone else, but if u trust them and are good to them, u shouldn't have anything to worry about. If their actions do make u feel uncomfortable, sit down and talk, again using nonviolent communication. Same goes for how they dress and look. They may not always feel like spending an uur plucking, tweezing, clipping this, applying that. Make sure they know they can relax and be themselves with you. Don't make them feel like they always have to look like a celestial being. If they're letting themselves go, so to speak, bring it up in a gentle and helpful way, like "What ever happened to your red lipstick? u have gorgeous lips, and I love it when u highlight them once in a while. It looks amazing."
9Take care of yourself. Don't be needy of dependent. Nothing scares someone away faster than someone they constantly need to remind to do laundry, take a shower, of get to work on time. Be hygienic and neat, set goals, and work hard. u can't be a good boyfriend if you're not a good person.
10Be open. Being open to one's mate will toon care and concern on her thoughts and feelings. Being open will also allow u to create a meer open relationship towards each other as well as creating a very good understanding in what your mate wants, feels, and needs. It will help to be open because u toon that u can be trusted. After all, love is a good combination of trust and commitment. Openness, in line with honesty will blend in perfect harmony and make your relationship last a long time.
11Be supportive. Being supportive plays a very crucial part in keeping a relationship strong. Make her needs a priority. Make sure u are with her with what she wants all the time. 110% supportive. Upon supporting your mate, it will usher in a new and improved sense of security.
12If she suffers the death of a pet, remember that to her it is a BIG deal. Women are programed to fall in love with their offspring, and most women refer to their pets as their babies and treat them as such. If she cries, do not tell her to stop. Instead, take the time and hold her, comfort her. She will probably fall asleep after she cries herself out. Do not leave (unless you're going no further than the keuken-, keuken to fix a snack for her when she wakes up, something simple that doesn't need to be refrigerated, of the bathroom). When she wakes, give her a hug and suggest doing something simple together such as watching tv and keeping contact. If she talks about her pet, listen, tell her the pet had a good life because of her, and that it probably appreciated it. If u know the pet's name, use it instead of saying "your cat". She'll be ok in a few days, although she might tear up a little when the pet is mentioned.
13If she cries for a reason u can't be sure of, first determine if the tears are happy, sad, of frustrated. If happy, then be happy with her. If sad, find out what made her sad, and comfort her. DO NOT tell her to stop crying, doing so makes her feel like she's being a burden to u of like u don't care. She'll stop crying eventually, just pet her hair (which most women find comforting) and hold her gently but securely as she may go limp once u touch her and really let loose. If she has trouble breathing, get her water. If the tears are of frustration, calm her down, ask specific vragen about what happened, and try to fix it if u can. If u cannot fix it, find someone who can and wait for her to calm down before asking them over to help. If it can't be fixed, and is an inanimate object causing the problem, feel free to insult it and say it should have been made for rocket scientists of something of the like.
14Remember she talks to her friends. If u don't know what she wants for a present, ask them, they probably know most of her dream dates, favoriete spots, favoriete brands, and what she absolutely hates. However, do not ask her vrienden what is wrong with her if u two have had a fight, they will almost always choose her side and word will get back to her. Be nice to her friends, if they don't like you, they may give her advice against being with u (especially if u are a complete jerk to them of refuse to let her spend time with them).
15Show affection. toon her that u love her, maybe some PDA, but don't over do it, u don't want to make her uncomfortable. Remember to read her signs, if she's not in the mood, don't kiss her!
In a relationship, honesty is door far the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. It is tough but no matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that u are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives u the same respect. Statistically, studies found that when a couple were meer honest from the start they were meer likely to become spouses of long-term partners. If u have a relevant opinion, let them know, otherwise u aren't giving them a chance to fix things and grow. Don't always try to make it sound like a compliment. It's fine to suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative (For example, if they ask u if u like something they are trying on, let them know that it might work, but u think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great ___.) But if u do that, eventually she's going to wear the original artikel that u didn't like, and eventually u will both get very tired of that strategy. It's the same with other problems: telling her what u like is fine, but u have to tell her what u don't like as well. Sugar-coating is fine, but deflecting isn't. Expect this kind of honesty back, and if u both realize that expressing such opinions just comes out of caring and honesty, you'll both have a better relationship.
2Don't brush them off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. If u really honestly care about that person then u will spend the time that they rightly deserve, of at least discuss the situation. Remember, she is your girlfriend because she likes being around you. Some girls have been taught that the only way to get attention when their boyfriend ignoring them is to act meer emotional and be louder until u finally surrender and pay attention to her, even if in annoyance. If people feel they're being gegeven the cold treatment door people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially when it happens without u giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky because they wouldn't let u do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas u found it important. If u know that your mood might lead u to overreact, simply say "I'm pretty angry and I don't want to fight like that. Let's talk later" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)
3Communicate. When u talk, u want to get a 50-50 balance in the flow of conversation. Neither gender enjoys an overly quiet (she thinks: uninterested/distant) of overly talkative (she thinks: self-obsessed/impolite). Unless of course something very exciting of important has happened for one of you, in which case a bit of conversation-dominance is expected. If u don't feel much like talking at some point, keep a flow of small vragen going. For example, ask them what type of films they enjoy, of about one of her favourites. If u know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what u thought of it, and make a guess at why they might have liked it. Even if u are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that u are interested enough to try. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting for your turn, it's listening. Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. Don't listen too intensely, staring and not once breaking eye contact is a bit scary, but certainly seem interested.
4Make physical contact. Girls have much thinner skin than guys, so even a light touch is appreciated. If your girl is a romantic, upon seeing her for the first time in a couple of days, say, "I missed you..." and weave your arms around her hips then give her a loving hug. Don't make it last too long! A hug in public can last anywhere from 5 seconds, to a minuut of two. If u have been together with your girlfriend for longer, and have kissed before, feel free to also give light kissed on her lips /cheeks / forehead/neck just to toon that u really appreciate her presence. of just kiss her hand (not in the bowing in front of her way though, just clasp and bring it up to your lips) Make sure to do it in private of a discrete place if you're not sure how your girlfriend feels about public displays of affection.
5Gifts. Put thought into birthday, Valentine's Christmas of anniversary gifts (by the way, it's the 21st century. Your phone has a calender and alarm on it so there's no excuse to forget). Give yourself time to think of what she would like. That way u can find it at a reasonable price and it will still say a lot. A halsketting, ketting for instance can be tacky if it's not thought out, but silver (which isn't really expensive) and a pendant that means something to her (her name, a snowflake if she loves to ski/skate, a musical note if she's musical, ect) can make it really sweet. And always add a little chocolate. Gifts can also be a nice surprise. Listen to them when u are out window shopping, and if there is something they like, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise them with it when they least expect it, for no reason at all. of pick something up on your way home pagina from work of school, and tell them u were thinking of them when u saw it. It doesn't have to be big of expensive--a book u know they will like, of a CD of their favourite band are nice gestures. As Sean Connery says, "The way to a woman's hart-, hart is through an unexpected gift at an unexpected time."
6Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub of go to a new part of town. Even if u both end up hating it, it's an experience u can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise them door doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and meer personal. This includes anything from racing them to your walking destination, dancing without music, of even bringing them a tub of LEGO and encouraging their immediate use. u two should grow to be comfortable with each other, and do things together without self-consciousness. Ideally, they should never feel stupid around u for wanting of doing a particular thing. Step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes, in order to get things going, u need to be the one to step out of the comfort zone.
7Compliment them sincerely. Find something particular and compliment them on it, but mean it. Don't just say, "You look nice". Say "That really makes your eyes flash", "Your hair cut really suits the shape of your face" of "That makes me want to kiss your neck" ...and then kiss their neck! The meer specific u are, the meer unique and appreciative the compliment.
8Let your partner be. Just because she is your significant other, doesn't mean she is yours, implying any kind of ownership. u can't keep this person all to yourself. u might get jealous if they talk to someone else, but if u trust them and are good to them, u shouldn't have anything to worry about. If their actions do make u feel uncomfortable, sit down and talk, again using nonviolent communication. Same goes for how they dress and look. They may not always feel like spending an uur plucking, tweezing, clipping this, applying that. Make sure they know they can relax and be themselves with you. Don't make them feel like they always have to look like a celestial being. If they're letting themselves go, so to speak, bring it up in a gentle and helpful way, like "What ever happened to your red lipstick? u have gorgeous lips, and I love it when u highlight them once in a while. It looks amazing."
9Take care of yourself. Don't be needy of dependent. Nothing scares someone away faster than someone they constantly need to remind to do laundry, take a shower, of get to work on time. Be hygienic and neat, set goals, and work hard. u can't be a good boyfriend if you're not a good person.
10Be open. Being open to one's mate will toon care and concern on her thoughts and feelings. Being open will also allow u to create a meer open relationship towards each other as well as creating a very good understanding in what your mate wants, feels, and needs. It will help to be open because u toon that u can be trusted. After all, love is a good combination of trust and commitment. Openness, in line with honesty will blend in perfect harmony and make your relationship last a long time.
11Be supportive. Being supportive plays a very crucial part in keeping a relationship strong. Make her needs a priority. Make sure u are with her with what she wants all the time. 110% supportive. Upon supporting your mate, it will usher in a new and improved sense of security.
12If she suffers the death of a pet, remember that to her it is a BIG deal. Women are programed to fall in love with their offspring, and most women refer to their pets as their babies and treat them as such. If she cries, do not tell her to stop. Instead, take the time and hold her, comfort her. She will probably fall asleep after she cries herself out. Do not leave (unless you're going no further than the keuken-, keuken to fix a snack for her when she wakes up, something simple that doesn't need to be refrigerated, of the bathroom). When she wakes, give her a hug and suggest doing something simple together such as watching tv and keeping contact. If she talks about her pet, listen, tell her the pet had a good life because of her, and that it probably appreciated it. If u know the pet's name, use it instead of saying "your cat". She'll be ok in a few days, although she might tear up a little when the pet is mentioned.
13If she cries for a reason u can't be sure of, first determine if the tears are happy, sad, of frustrated. If happy, then be happy with her. If sad, find out what made her sad, and comfort her. DO NOT tell her to stop crying, doing so makes her feel like she's being a burden to u of like u don't care. She'll stop crying eventually, just pet her hair (which most women find comforting) and hold her gently but securely as she may go limp once u touch her and really let loose. If she has trouble breathing, get her water. If the tears are of frustration, calm her down, ask specific vragen about what happened, and try to fix it if u can. If u cannot fix it, find someone who can and wait for her to calm down before asking them over to help. If it can't be fixed, and is an inanimate object causing the problem, feel free to insult it and say it should have been made for rocket scientists of something of the like.
14Remember she talks to her friends. If u don't know what she wants for a present, ask them, they probably know most of her dream dates, favoriete spots, favoriete brands, and what she absolutely hates. However, do not ask her vrienden what is wrong with her if u two have had a fight, they will almost always choose her side and word will get back to her. Be nice to her friends, if they don't like you, they may give her advice against being with u (especially if u are a complete jerk to them of refuse to let her spend time with them).
15Show affection. toon her that u love her, maybe some PDA, but don't over do it, u don't want to make her uncomfortable. Remember to read her signs, if she's not in the mood, don't kiss her!
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2.It can make u laugh so hard
3.It can make u cry like a baby
4.The fight scenes are epic
5.Theres blood
6.They swear
7.The storyline is really good
8.Theres Ninjas'!!
9.They have Sasuke(cool)
10.The weapons they use are so coool
11.The villians are so evil.
12.It makes u wish u lived in the naruto world.
13.They have great opening and ending songs.
14.It makes u think about it all the time
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2.It can make u laugh so hard
3.It can make u cry like a baby
4.The fight scenes are epic
5.Theres blood
6.They swear
7.The storyline is really good
8.Theres Ninjas'!!
9.They have Sasuke(cool)
10.The weapons they use are so coool
11.The villians are so evil.
12.It makes u wish u lived in the naruto world.
13.They have great opening and ending songs.
14.It makes u think about it all the time
15.It teaches u naruto history
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this is a debate and i want everyone reading this
writing a commentaar about what u think is write of wrong
ok?
so anyway
here i go
what came first
the egg
of the chicken?
thats my debate and i want EVERYONE who's a fan
of random to write what they think is right
and become a fan of me and become a fan of my
article
and remember
what came first
the egg
of the chicken
i am only doing this because i have been
wondering that for ages
this is a debate and i want everyone reading this
writing a commentaar about what u think is write of wrong
ok?
so anyway
here i go
what came first
the egg
of the chicken?
thats my debate and i want EVERYONE who's a fan
of random to write what they think is right
and become a fan of me and become a fan of my
article
and remember
what came first
the egg
of the chicken
i am only doing this because i have been
wondering that for ages
my friend sent me this text message a while geleden and i thought it was hilarious!!!
i need to ask u somethingand i want u to be totally honest with me. it may be awkward between us after this but i have to kow how u feel... I've kept it in for a while now but now it's time to be straight up and just confront you. i hope this doesn't ruin anything we have, i just need to know and i dont see any other way i could get over this. it just doesn't seem fair if i dont gett an answer. i want u to tell me truthfully, please no matter how harsh it is. i just want your hoest opinion...
Pepsi of Coke?
Ha ha ha ha !!!
Funny.
i need to ask u somethingand i want u to be totally honest with me. it may be awkward between us after this but i have to kow how u feel... I've kept it in for a while now but now it's time to be straight up and just confront you. i hope this doesn't ruin anything we have, i just need to know and i dont see any other way i could get over this. it just doesn't seem fair if i dont gett an answer. i want u to tell me truthfully, please no matter how harsh it is. i just want your hoest opinion...
Pepsi of Coke?
Ha ha ha ha !!!
Funny.