But it would also make her character perfect if she grew mad... I'm not sure which one of the scenarios I like better.

There are many things I don't like about ASOIAF.
And I guess there are enough books on GRRM's world.
Jaime's hand... yeah... worse things happened on the show, but I generally agree. He should have a golden hand.
I HATE Alayne Stone and I also don't like Asha and Theon either, or their relationship at any point of the book for that matter.
I do NOT want Daenerys to go mad under any circumstances. Viserys was mad. Daenerys is not. But if she does grow mad, that'll be Selmy and Jorah's fault.

The reason I can't entirely love Dany is because I suspect that deep inside she is just as mad as Viserys and Aerys or worse. I feel like going crazy is what's in store for her in near future. But before that I would love to see some Dany ass kicking (dragons involved).

I've always secretly hoped Daenerys will end up trying to burn everyone. I don't know why. It's just my sick twisted fantasy :P

If you don't love her at her Sansa Stark, you don't deserve her at her Alayne Stone.

And yeah, I wish Dany learned but her whole thing is she doesn't want to ("if I look back, I am lost"). She did go crazy at the end of adwd but that to be fair was probably food poisoning. Still, she'll definitely go dark and I'm looking forward to it.

I love asoiaf but not everything about it. Not the unnecessary rape/sex scenes, or how grrm plays favorites and holds his characters to double standards, etc.