I need Friend Advice.

OK how can I tell my friend that I think the man she is dating is making her unwell and that she should finish with him without actually saying it to her as A she will never believe me and B if I do she will never contact me ever again. Any idea's please some.
 sehdt posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
The best kind of communication is to go up to the person and address to them the problem, of whatever message u wish to convey.

I know that you've zei u don't want to say it, but it's better off telling your friend door your own self other than writing something to her, of having someone else say it for you. If u really think that this person is making her "unwell", as u say, then it has to be said. If u don't say anything right now, what's going to happen later? Things will only get worse, and I'm sure that u already know that.

It'll be normal for skepticism; who could respond positively to those kinds of messages at first? Things like this are zei all the time, but if u were really good vrienden with her, she should have faith in u and not cut off ties just because u have something important to say. If she doesn't believe you, tell her how she's been acting lately: whatever has been out of sorts. If she doesn't contact u again, then she will have to find out the hard way that your words were what she should have followed and listened to.

And I could infer that u want your friend away from that man as soon as possible, but if she's that close to him, u can't immediately pry her off. Things like this take time, and u need to trust that, if she understands your message the way that you're conveying to her, she will soon part ways.

Don't be aggressive; be assertive. Good luck.
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Thank u my one problem is she is only willing to communicate door emai after things were zei last jaar and time is not on my side as there is a good chance she will be moving to spain door the end of the year. Thanks for your help.
sehdt posted een jaar geleden
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No problem. I think that u should try sending her something before she heads off, though. It's only a suggestion, though.
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