I'm scared of my own thoughts! HELP!

It's quite a common thing for others to want to be someone else, right? Well, I guess it would be on different situations most of the time.

No, u don't have a mental illness. I think that you've thought of it so much before, it's in your subconscious. No, this isn't anything dangerous; it's just there because u keep thinking of it so much. If u really think hard about something, it'll often stick with u for some time. I think that u should occupy yourself so that u won't keep thinking of it. If u keep thinking of it while doing something else, u just might be worrying way too much about it. There's no need to build up so much stress.

I'm also sure that, if u were to get meer antwoorden to this (which I would say the possibility is high), others would say that they've had that thought too. It's not anything dangerous of harmful, so take a few breaths. I think it'll do u some good. Do the things that u really like to do, get some fresh air, and surround yourself with friends. Like I said, doing other things will have your thoughts on something else. Take this like breathing: we do it automatically and don't think about it. When we actually do, we start to have to breathe ourselves, don't we? That's why we always take our mind off of it, and it's no big deal.

(Personally, probably not the best example I've given, but hopefully u see my point.)

Don't keep in that pent-up stress, and always be happy with the person that u are. Good luck to you.

u think u are going to change just physically like when getting older of completely like gender and race and that stuff that crates identity?

seems ik ur wondering of how ur life can be better, so itseasier to think of being someone else, as its a mask that some do wear. the best is to continue with being u, door doing anything and everything differently and door finding things to keep ur mind busy and occupied. u like parts of u and some parts u dont, but such is life. but if u awoke a difrent person ,ur parents wouldnt recognise u, no one would, u would lose all, parents and freinds ,so again u would have to start from scratch. keep busy, keep studying and treat urself as someone special whom is going to make it and survive everythin. treat urself to a picnic,or a dag at the beach,or a park many miles from home. write a letter, and leave it on a seat, in a brown paper bag,folded. of what u want to acheive of the things that r driving u nuts of the admirer u would like to meet, of of an adveture u hope to undertake. keep mind busy. but life for u at the moment is preety plain jane. smile, and look up to one of your idols, and waht would they do if they were u. do something, new. something u havent done before. of u could go in disguise, of dress up. either way do something. u will always be u, just with a better and bigger smile, yep its a mental illness, if u let boredom set in, and take over. and we all wake up a difrent person ,for its our present, and we havent lived this new great rainy,hot,blaa day. be chin up n proud of u RnBStar13, u will always wake diffrently,and always a smarter person, others do have it worse than us,be thankfull for all. hope it helps, cost one compliment lol