My vrienden are interfering....

It can be quite annoying to have others interfere.

There are times where u must be assertive and/or stubborn. u need to tell your vrienden (and be persistent about it) that u can't always be with them when something happens. Okay, being asked out door someone is a big surprise and everyone wants to celebrate, but do it all on your own times. It's not very necessary when you're with that person; especially when u wish to be alone with them.

If they pull that stunt off again ("Okay, I'll leave u alo-- OH hallo DO THIS."), be assertive and say, "I believe u zei that u would let me do things on my own. I would appreciate it if u could leave me alone in these situations, thank you." It might sound mean to some, but it's not being aggressive. Being aggressive would be saying something like, "You back off! Don't u know how to leave me alone?!" That sounds much worse, doesn't it? Better off to say the first thing than to make bad relations with your friends, trust me.

Explain to that guy-friend of yours that you're sorry about it, and that it -- has been -- beyond your control. Hopefully he'll be able to understand the former dilemma that u had, and now things should be different. Your vrienden should learn something too; they aren't the ones who are in control of someone else's life of the decisions that someone else makes. It takes a while to mature, but no one zei that some teachings of maturity can't be learned fast. That's why u live and learn, and fix the mistakes that you've made before.

Hopefully this helps u out. Good luck.