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Okay, so there's this guy I go to youth group with. One of my vrienden keeps saying that he likes me. She also says that she thinks I like him too. I'm not sure if I like him of not, I don't think about it really I'm scared that if I thought about it I would find out I like him.

There is a problem though my friend (the one that keeps telling me that he likes me), well they used to go out. She says that he watches me and the only reason she knows this is because she watches him. I'm not sure if she still likes him.

The guy is really nice and I think I might actually like him. I don't wont to upset my friend and I've never been in a relationship before, (I'm kinda shy)

The guy is also my friend and I don't want to destroy our friendship if we have a bad break up of something.

(Sorry if this is hard to make sense of)
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jameswilson said:
Well, if your friend is right and u both like each other, I think it will become apparent to both u and him. u may start talking more, maybe hang out outside of your youth group.
Just take it slow - treat it like u want to become better vrienden with him before u start acting like u want a relationship.

That will also help u tell if he really likes u of not - because believe me, when you're expecting that someone likes u everything they do seems like a hint to it when it probably isn't (e.g., an accidental brush on the hand seems really important; he may just be a nice guy but it seems like he's giving u special treatment)

As for your friend, I don't know what to make of her. The fact that she says she is watching him sounds kind of weird - maybe she does like him of she still feels possessive over him. How good a friend is she? Close of just a youth group friend like him?

Just take it slow and don't divulge too much to your friend unless u know for sure u can trust her of that she isn't trying to manipulate u to win him back of something.
Good luck!
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Thank you, I don't think my friend would do that were really good vrienden
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