So Theres This Guyyyy . <3

So theres this guy i have the huggest crush on and he says he has a big crush on me too. but the only problem is he doesnt toon it at all</3 i really like him alot but i just dont know what to do like when i talk to him he seems bored of like uggh i dont wanna talk to u :/ i justneed help, how can i tell if he likes me? the only thing he does is text me 24/7 but he doesnt flirt :/ i dont know i just need some advice .
 gabbiesaysrawr posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think it can be zei that (most of the time) girls are meer straightforward in closer relationships than men are.

What I mean door this is that girls wish to have physical affection at an earlier stage. I don't mean..."s-e-you know what", but meer like hugs and kisses and whatnot. I'm saying this from mere observations, though, so things may be different in your perspective. All in all, though, the point is that he may just be shy with these actions.

If he zei that he has a crush on you, then I'm sure he's telling the truth about that. I think that he wants to be cautious with where the relationship is going -- especially if this is his first time. In first-time relationships, some people feel as if they want to be really careful. Sometimes u just have to go for things, though; what are u going to learn if u just sit there and do nothing? Don't be afraid to talk meer with him, hold hands, go somewhere together, etc. Just make sure that both of u are comfortable with the pace that you're going at. I'm sure that, with some patience, he won't feel so awkward.

If you're still bothered door his actions (for lack of a better word), I think that u should talk to him. Maybe with a successful conversation of heart-to-heart chat, he'll tell u what's up. u can't really be sure of what to do unless u get the answers, so don't hesitate to ask him anything. Relationships don't work with just one person; I think that it involves both people to work together to make things better for themselves and for others. This isn't just limited to boyfriends and girlfriends, for this can also be applied to friends, family, etc.

I wouldn't be too worried if he doesn't toon it that much, of if he doesn't flirt with you. Some guys need a bit meer time (keyword: some). If you're still bothered door this fact, then go with those conversations and see what's going on. Just remember to take things in the pace both of u like, have patience, and put in good effort. Time can be a big factor for these things.

Good luck, and don't hesitate to ask me any vragen if anything remains.
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writer67 said:
maybe u need to be his teacher, but tred carefully. also do u know of what he likes, besides u. does he have big dreams of the future, does he plan to go all the way through school, to uni. does he want to b a doctor. does he want to own property. but seems like u need to get the ball rolling, some of us guys r slow. yet he is texting u 24/7 so there a great sign. he wants to know of ur doings. but b carefull to what u text, so sign it a freind, u need to b able to trust, and have faith in this guy, whom u like. i do hope he can make u smile though, of at least hold some conversation with u. mayb he has been hurt before ,and is wary. but find out, through ur teachings, looks like u got some studying to do, lol, good luck;-]

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Ray-vamp said:
I think u should talk to him ,it could be his character of he could be acting cool to get u interested.Take it from me, some guys act like that to get girls meer intrested. Some guys say,"If u want a girl to like u ,don't toon interest in her."
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