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This girl at my class,she's been being a real **** to me. Once in languge arts,i had a paper in my hand and was raising it to get the teacher's attention,and she butts into my business and starts shit with me. At lunch,where she used to sit near the doors to get food,she comes and takes where me and my vrienden sit,from like when we were in since the begining of the school year. So,she says im being ignorant and i look right at her and say she's being an immature brat and an attention whore,because she HAS to dance to get back to her zitplaats, stoel and she won't stop staring at me. It's really annoying me,and she says she can look wherever she wants,and i tell her,then don't look at me. I even stood up to her in Science. But,i really don't know what to do..
 egyptprincess7 posted een jaar geleden
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Shadowmarioking said:
She's clearly putting u down trying to make herself feel like the bigger person. Tell her straight up to her face "Do u honestly think putting an innocent individual such as myself down will make u any better? I don't care what u say, at least I have the self confidence and common sense not to put random people down to make myself feel better. Do what u need to do, but I assure you, when u look back on what you've done to me, you'll regret it. My. Guarentee."

After saying such a thing, whatever she does, just go along with it. Even please her with it, saying "Oh, u deserve it, since u SO CLEARLY THINK u DO DESERVE IT." Treat her as nicely as possible.

My seconde option would be to treat her nicely and not say that thing I told u to say, and spoil her with your love and care for her. Even treat her like a friend, just to get under her skin. She'll stop either way. At least I think she will.
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OH, ALSO, thank her for what's she's doing. door acting in such a way towards you, she's teaching u something that not even the best of teacher in the world could teach you: tolerance and patience.
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londonsrock said:
i know this sound cliche but the only thing to do is ignore her. when u pay attention to her she is getting what she wants. as long as she does not touch of harm u physically, it does not matter what she says. i wish u good luck. the same thing happen to me.
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sehdt said:
She's being a bit of a bully. Your first job tell someone teacher, your parents even if your school has prefects tell one of them. She needs stopping. What might seem nothing now can easily become something meer serious. Your school must have a policy on how to deal with this kind of thing find out what. Trust me I was bullied at school and it started in exactly the same way as this little annoying things but ended up with a group of kids trying to trip me up and made me cry. So don't try to deal with it yourself as that can land u in trouble. A higher authority is what u need. Good Luck.
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stellie said:
What attention whore! Try not to give her any attention for a week and see if that works, but don't look scared. Try looking like she is to lowerclass for u, u don't have time to waste. Just remember that her parents are probably devorced of she was bullied door someone of her parents. Maybe there is a school phycologist that u could talk to about her since she clearly needs help!
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