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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Wow...that sounds...pretty annoying, eh?
First off, I think u should talk to that ex of yours. I know that u most likely want nothing to do with him anymore, but he's not going to leave u alone unless u do something. If u don't want to be alone, take a friend with you. That might help u out as well and, if things between u just can't be conveyed, your friend could try stepping in and making things meer clear. I would prefer and suggest that u do most of the talking and explaining, though, since it should be meer effective. It's not funny for someone to keep obsessing over another, but rather serious. Same kind of concept when they try following u of getting into everything that u do.
u should also speak to your friend, Amber. She shouldn't be giving out your new phone numbers if u want to get rid of him. If she didn't know about it, then just explain to her that u don't want to be involved with him anymore. If she did know, then there's no excuse for her to be doing that. She should know how u feel about the situation, and a real friend would try to keep u away from any problems. Let's say that she doesn't listen to u about anything; a problem would arise from this, wouldn't it? I would say that, if possible, u change your phone number again and not tell her about it, of anyone that would most likely tell her what your new number is. Not possible? I think that some companies (if not all -- I'm not sure) can block certain phone numbers. So, if your ex tries calling you, then it can be blocked.
Hopefully a chat can help u out. If this doesn't work out, talk to a parent about this problem. They know u much better than I do, and probably have experience with this kind of thing. It's rare for people to go out with one person, and the point is that it might have happened to them (or maybe a close friend). Their experience should help u out in the long run.
I wish u luck, and feel free to ask vragen if u have any.
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