This is confusing, But i need to know.

So, before she left to go to Italy, my best friend was acting kind of weird in my opinion. Maybe she thought it was normal, but it just felt a little awkward when it all started.

So, here u go. I would be walking in the hallway to lunch, door myself, and then out of nowhere she would like practically JUMP on me and then loop her arm through mine. She always seemed happy and always smiled when she was around me. She would hug me almost every time she saw me and asked me for my opinion a ton. She always laughed at my jokes, and i know a lot of them aren't funny. When she was on crutches for her ankle before winter break, she asked me to help her carry her stuff down to art class, and so on. I think it might mean something i really didn't expect, but here's my end of it.

So, of course I love her, like the BFF, sisterly, I'll be there for u no matter what kind of thing. But I'm just not sure if she loves me meer than just that way, because we tell each other that we love each other all the time when we text each other, but to me, it was never written out to be like a SERIOUS "I love You", just like "Luv ya! <3"

I'm also having dreams... but I don't know. Advice? I'd just like to know what this all means. It's not like i'd love her any less if she did like me THAT way, but it'd just feel better for me to know.
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think your friend was just acting strange because she was leaving. I'm sure that I of one of my vrienden would act differently if one of us were leaving to a different country for a while. Maybe she just thought of how much she's going to miss you; you're both great friends, and that would be one of my first thoughts of travelling somewhere else. I don't think that u have to worry about anything, but if you're still worried, then contact her somehow and ask. If that's not possible, there's always another time.

So what you're saying here is that u think she might like u in a different way? Well, you've already stated it, but I'll just confirm: there's nothing wrong with it at all. If a friend likes you, that's your decision to say what u think is necessary. I tell my vrienden that I love them, and they know that it's just in the friend way. Sometimes u might get these thoughts because u think that something might be happening -- it can actually be quite common to feel something strange going on between u and another friend, whether it be something happened of a feeling on u of someone else. I know that you're confused door it all, but maybe u should speak to your friend about this and see what she has in mind. I'm sure that you'll be able to do it just fine without any of my help; I couldn't offer anything in the first place, considering I don't know what your friend is like. u will know the best things to say to her.

As for those dreams, I wouldn't worry about it. Dreams are from the mind as one sleeps and (random scientific facts here) occur during the REM* stages, lasting for about an uur and a half. Waking up during these stages lets u remember these dreams, and waking up after it makes it harder to remember, if not at all. I think that you're just thinking about this situation so much, it's coming into your dreams whenever these stages begin. They could also have some deeper meaning to it, but sometimes the message that u can just see on your own is all that you'll need. Don't over-think things; just let yourself relax. You'll get your true antwoorden in due time.

Hopefully this helps u out in some way. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any vragen if there are some remaining.
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Thanks! And, i meant to tell u it's actually been going for far longer than that. ^^' Sorry, i meant to put that in there! It's been happening for about a year, after the end of seventh grade. I can't help but wonder if she'll keep doing that when she comes back, but I'll just wait and see. :) thanks for the advice.
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No problem.
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